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How is not being able to return another human's feelings a perfectly normal human position? In medieval texts, a maiden (virgin) is a person that is "worth" more than other people just because they have an intact hymen. Chief seems to support this barbarian position by saying a girl isn't even worth his time if she's a virgin. Bluntly, as a PUA I enjoy the intimacy of sex. When you say that virgins deserve special SPAM, when you elevate them above "regular" women, you are sending a message that women should not be having sex.
Just to demonstrate how patently ridiculous the logic in this post is, you're saying that if a girl admits that she's a virgin, you'll turn her away like Style saying she deserves a man that will appreciate her more. Okay, so if she goes out and screws the first available man (quite possible if the object of her affections totally rejects her sexual advances) and is no longer a virgin, THEN you'd pursue her? You make virginity sound like an evil curse (which for some men and women, it is).
Pick up DOES teach you not to appreciate women. It teaches you abundance mindset, it teaches you to be "fickle" as Chief says. Mystery, the Jesus of Pick Up was a man child that could not have an adult relationship, who didn't think of women beyond the pleasure they provide. Do you think that's a coincidence? The "good role models" you're talking about are probably posers that haven't been with a lot of women. You have to realize a lot of "MPUA's" are better at seducing desperate men than women. The FACT of economics is, the more you have of something, the less you will value it.
Sorry if I'm hard to follow, I know I'm right I just can't put it concisely. But anyway, the people that understand where I'm coming from are the ones who've probably already quit or maybe my results with pick up were totally unusual, so I'll give it a rest. Thanks for your time anyway.
1. Who said she wasn't worth my or Chiefs time? It's very simple....
She fucks me, she wants relationship, I don't want relationship (and as is my right) I refuse to be forced into something I don't want, she gets hurt.
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She doesn't fuck me, if we get on, we stay friends, neither of us have to suffer any drama or hurt.
It's not about value, it's about one person wanting one thing and another person wanting another. So they agree to go their seperate ways and find what they want with someone who shares their desires. As opposed to try and force eachother to bend to one anothers will.
2. Depends whether she is more sexually mature now, compared to then. Virgins by definition have very little sexual emotional maturity, and haven't developed the schemas to deal with the kinds of emotions that can arise with sex.
To answer: I would consider fucking her, had she developed the maturity to handle sex without exlcusivity. It is unlikely however that just losing your virginity will give you that maturity. I lost my maturity outside of a relationship and even as a male, it REALLY fucked with my head for a good 8 months and I didn't really get over it until 4 months or so after that.
3. Since when does abundance of one trait make you devalue the other traits? This is your objectifying coming in The only thing that is in abudance is pretty girls, this doesn't make you value them as people less, ofcourse things change if like you your going to objectify them as just "pretty girls".
That doesn't mean that tri-lingual, guitar playing girl who has the sweetness to give you a good morning call, or that look on her face that makes you light up whatever the mood is a rare girl.
Human resource = Naz, the guy who runs breakneck comedy, he gets me gigs. He can be replaced when a new boss takes over breakneck.
Human Being = Ashleigh, girl from the north of england who is almost a mother and sister figure to me and who I have great interest in remaining friends with. She is not so expendable.
4. You're still referring to mystery as the jesus of PU? Really? You do realise the guys a fucking joke to nearly anyone with some skill?
Compare him to someone like say Adam Lyons, who like a couple of other members who were on this forum is happily married right now.
5. Compared to the people who are arguing against you, your view has been the cruellest and harshest towards "human beings", featuring themes of objectifying people into means to and ends and interpretations of conflicts of interest as rejecting girls becuase of their virginity.
Me thinks you don't like being this way, and that you're wanting to blame PU, to obsolve your conscience of responsibility.