Why Women Get Engaged or Marry for Love and Yet Cheat for Sex
Once a cheater is always a cheater is an age old cliche. Yet we all need to see this from a scientific point of view to better manage our relationships.
Given the opportunity when a pussy is dangled right in front of a man for that easy lay, most men are bound to take that pussy; provided, however, that the vaginal support system is anywhere in the HB6 to HB10 rating scale. Many men won't think twice about cheating on their girlfriends or wives and justify the act as not cheating. After all, their girlfriends or wives still own their hearts. It's just sex.
Now, let's reverse that. When a woman is presented with an opportunity for banging a cock from a hot man within the HM6 to HM10 rating scale, most women will hesitate to take your dick by the balls and slap their faces with your eager bird thinking, "OMG! OMG! Am I dreaming? This is such a suave penis and my vagina is about to copulate with this hard, throbbing cock!"
Women will tend to hesitate in taking your dick mainly for a memetic reason-- They don't want to be labeled as sluts and derided by the entire community. Another reason is that some women feel that they need an emotional connection first before a quick fuck with your, uhm, little dick.
From an economic rationale, it's supply and demand. Women need to take care of a fertilized ovum for 9 months courtesy of just one man. Meanwhile, one man can fertilize 800 women in 20 years or around 30 women in the same 9 months as long as he's up for the challenge anytime of the day. Moreover, cute hot babes get hit on by many men on an hourly basis not including the dozens upon dozens of AFCs who just look from afar thinking how they'll approach the girl.
But the
MAJOR, unconscious, genetic reason is that only a few men can actually give them a vaginal orgasm. That's right. That's just ONE vaginal orgasm. A huge percentage of men have premature ejaculation problems. An even bigger percentage of men have no idea what a real woman's orgasm looks like. Hence, most men are simply clueless on how to give women vaginal orgasms.
Why? Men have it easy. When we spurt that semen, that's one orgasm. When women lubricate with that cream pie, that ain't orgasm yet dude. When she screams out loud, again that ain't orgasm. Did you ever screamed out loud yourself saying, "Faster! Faster!" while you're jacking off your wanker? Your girl is just faking it, taking cue from those Jesse Jane or Carmen Luvana Pirates of the Caribbean porn spoof. Several scientific studies indicate, and it's already a fact of life, that most women fake their orgasms to make their men feel good.
How to Tell When a Woman is Not Having Vaginal Orgasms - Clothed
So how can you tell when a woman is not having vaginal orgasms with her boyfriend or husband?
- 1. She frequents clubs and bars and chooses clothes that bare more skin. Grammer and colleagues have a reputable, often cited study on this with a televised feature.
2. She often gets drunk. Several articles in the Journal of Sexual Medicine report on and analyzed this.
3. She flirts more openly with a lot of men. While women unconsciously flirt with men most of the time, a woman who is not having enough oxytocin release will be more blatant in her flirting cues. A seminal scientific study featured in mainstream newspapers and tv not so long ago reported on this.
4. She's irritable most of the time and stressed out. Stress is an indicator that the woman needs more oxytocin and she's not getting it. This is the same reason why stressed out women are hornier so they can have sex-- and hopefully orgasms, and then eventually release lots of oxytocin to help their bodies subdue the stress hormones into more manageable levels. Note: this implies that an angry woman would be much easier to sexually seduce. I've had wild sex in the recent past with a few women who were angry at me before I f-closed them.
5. By the way she walks. This is from the US National Library of Medicine. It's a free abstract, here: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18637995
Why Women Cheat with the Bad Boy
The higher probability of having vaginal orgasms with a man who is skilled and capable is enough reason for a woman to unconsciously fall for your seduction leading to your bedroom. The promise of a vaginal orgasm is enough and it doesn't matter in the seduction process whether you can actually give the woman what she is craving for. This is the same reason why women go for one night stands. If it's just one lay and if it sucks, they won't have so much trouble shaking you off from their lives.
Truth is, most women who still lack experience are not yet skilled enough in separating the capable man from the bunch of clueless AFCs. Moreover, not all bad boys are capable. Genetically though, women unconsciously look for bad boy cues so they can have that elusive vaginal orgasm. And what are these cues? Too bad, I'll have to take my breakfast now. Maybe later. Tee-hee.
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