ummm for the cumming issue idk, I can't really imagine how one could cum involuntarily. I mean if I lose focus I don't get one.

Well anyway I can have multiple orgasms, why don't i tell you how to do that and if that works for u it won't matter if they come really fast, because there is more than one. And the second one usually takes a bit longer, so that should help you out too.

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Ok when you need to pee but you hold it back you use a certain muscle. Now, feel the muscled area behind the testicles. When you have an erection, the area should swell slightly. Flex the muscles, and feel them as your flexing because that helps you get more control over them.If you do it your penis should feel more b pressure and raise itself slightly and get a bit harder. OK first thing, when you masturbate rub this area (it may make your orgasm feel a bit stronger). When you ejaculate, the muscles may spasm, but press down really hard, and you should be able to actually feel the sperm spurting under the muscles. Press down harder and block the sperm from flowing, and let it just stay inside you.

Hopefully you will notice that when you succesfully block the sperm, your penis will stay at least somewhat erect, and you can have another orgasm.

OK now that you know which muscles to use, try clenching them really tight before you orgasm and try to hold in the sperm without using your hands, but just the muscle. Try not stimulating your penis too much at this point, let the orgasm be a bit wimpier so you can better control it. If you can't maybe you can keep flexing the muscle or something and get them stronger, im not sure. Now your erection will stay even if you orgasm early. When you finally do let the sperm go, the orgasm will be more intense.

Note- you will need some self control because a held back orgasm doesn't feel as good as a released one, but it does last longer.

Yes, I do spend way too much time jacking off! Practice makes perfect.

forgot to say, you know your flexing if your penis moves up all by itself. Just saying cuz i guess it helps to have a visual that your doing it right.

Hey chi thanks for the post. I have already looked into the PC muscle as you have described but your description was excellent. I was wondering if you could be more specific about the

"Now, feel the muscled area behind the testicles."

Where exactly should I be putting my fingers? I have tried to work my PC muscle but it is extremely difficult and perhaps putting my fingers in the right place would help. Also how do I make the transition from doing with my fingers there to without?

um it is kind of the area between your testicals and your a**hole. Maybe yours is smaller so you have trouble finding it...
wait let me google this and see if I can find a picture...ew lol...i wish I know what this area is called so I could do this easier.

here we go...you owe me I had to turn off safesearch X(

http://www.whitelotuseast.com/Images/Lingam011.jpg

Why don't you visit the website while your at it it seems pretty informative
particularly this section which applies to this.

http://www.whitelotuseast.com/LingamMassage.htm

Well when I was a kid I just clenched and did it to prolong the feeling and to avoid wetting the bed, and then later I discovered I could also use my fingers, but I figured it would be more intuitive to start with fingers.

Try making your orgasm a bit weaker by not stimulating too hard, because the stronger it is the harder it'l be to control your muscles. Even I can't do it if I have a full, strong orgasm. It's really the same thing as holding back urine, only during orgasm when your self control is low. Uh, this is a bit weird but maybe you could try starting and stopping urine first?

Just in general try to make the area stronger. OK this def amuses girls - try moving your penis with just the muscle, without moving any other muscle, wagging up and down. I'm hoping your moter skills will take over if you can clearly see the effect of what you are doing.

Look even if you can't do it, just masturbate more often anyway and get to know your body so that you know when you are about to orgasm and can feel it coming. This may seem ignorant since I don't know about this, but can't you just slow down or change positions to delay orgasms and avoid the issue of going too fast?

Cool thx dude.

As for the hyperhydrosis, I get it too. It's extremely embarrassing holding someone's hand for a dance, when you know it's slick with sweat..

The Driclor product mentioned earlier works on and off for me - in my experience a) don't use it all the time (ie. a fortnight on/off), and b) if there's a particular event you want your hands/ pits to be dry for, then use Driclor for 2/3 nights beforehand - i've found that if you DON'T normally use it, the day after the 1st application can have very varied results.
I'm trying to say, give yourself a buffer zone to make sure it works properly!

But tbh, for me it doesnt work well on my armpits (in fact, it can irritate the skin), so i wear a Puma base layer that does well - it wicks sweat away, is dark so can be worn under most things, and isnt as thick as a cotton tshirt.

Sup bro, I dont sweat much, sorry cant help there. I can help you with your premature problem. You can get drunk I cant get off if ive been drinking and were a condom. Condoms freeking suck. Other than that all I can tell you is to keep having alot of sex and sooner or later you will gain the super sex power that I have. Haha