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To put it really BLUNTLY.
I hate people using 3000 words to make a point.
The longer the thread the more subjective it becomes.
The fewer words you use to get your point accross the better.
What is pickup if not subjective? We are dealing with emotions, which are things that are not nearly so similar to logic as we would like.
I would say that much more of pickup is subjective rather than objective. Which is the reason for the "3000" word posts. Also, just saying, you don't have to have super super long posts, but you should lengthen yours at least some. (Newest post on older wingmen was pretty good).
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Over time say the last 20 years it has become (socially exceptable) to over analize things.
A lot if this comes from america. (and this is not yank bashing but fact)
This is the kind of statement that I'm talking about. Honestly, I don't care if you bash America, considering there are certainly a lot of things to bash. But I honestly don't see a rational basis for this.
Perhaps this is the reason you come across as arrogant. You insist on things being objective and clear cut, with very little opinionated grey area. So you're going to have to start providing some backup for your statements otherwise it just comes across badly.
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To be told to be outcome independant is bollocks.
To be told honestly by somebody you trust to say get a haircut or work on conversation skills is helpful.
I don't get the comparison. If you are trying to provide backup for your earlier statement, that's good, but I simply differ in opinion here. To be outcome independent is simply acceptance of the present moment.
But that's something to be debated in other posts.