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UV1, this isn't about sharing pornographic pictures and then rating them.

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I study decision sciences, so I know what I'm talking about when I say that this is nonsense. A rating system is also a ranking system, after all 10 is higher than 9, 3 is lower than 7 etc. But ranking women according to their attractiveness requires that you must already have decided which one is more attractive. This means that an assigned value cannot help you decide which girl you prefer, because your preference must be formulated BEFORE you can rank them, which must happen BEFORE you can assign a value.

Let me use an example to elaborate. Imagine two women, one we will call Ashley, the other Bethany. Let's assume for the moment that Ashley is an 8 and Bethany is a 6. Which one do we prefer to fuck? Ashley of course, her 8 outranks Bethany's 6. But wait a sec, how did we know Ashley is an 8 and Bethany is a 6? Well, we compared the attractiveness of their faces, we took a long measuring stare at their asses, and we assessed the succulence of their breasts. Taking all these factors, and many others, into account, we decided that we would prefer to fuck Ashley over Bethany. Consequently, the lucky Ashley must receive a higher value than poor old Bethany. So the preference that we had formulated based on our valuation system was actually a necessary condition to create the valuation system in the first place.
Exactly. And when you don't know, ranking them won't help you one bit.

EDIT: As for some advice on the original problem, I'd say: sleep on it. Your subconscious is much better at processing the multifaceted and complicated phenomena that underlie preferences. Moreover, new information may arise which can alter your perception. Unless there is a valid reason to make a quick decision, my advice would be to procrastinate it.

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.

I also believe in the "would I bang? Yes or no" scale and the "would I date? Yes or no"

Makes things so simple and helps me to be myself.

Now as far as attraction goes for me? Well I'm heavily swayed by personality and intelligence. These attributes are very sexy for me. For the ease of description ill use the HB scale!

A hb7 with the perfect personality will easily be a hb10 for me.

Likewise a hb10 looks wise can be turned into a hb4 very quickly for me if she is an idiot, freak or bitch! I will not touch these girls even if its just for sex.

I only date girls that deserve to date me! This is only girls who are nice, honest, smart and motivated! Though there obviously need to be a very high level of physical attraction.

What makes me laugh here is the pitiful value you're assigning to the total combination of a girl's attitude, SPAM of you, general prospects in life, and pretty much everything else that counts. You've given each of these girls 6 and 8 points respectively merely for their looks. You then amend those ratings by one single point to take account of everything else about them. Do you see how ludicrously disproportionate that is?

A girl who treats me like a king and a girl who treats me like crap are on opposite ends of the spectrum, regardless of how they look. The way they look is just what God/evolution/whatever gave them. They didn't earn that shit. Their attitude and the way they choose to treat a man is a real reflection on what they've done with their lives and the people they've chosen to be, and that is something real, something that deserves my consideration and respect.

binary attraction -vic, that is brilliant (u proll already knew that)

i will say this tho, being brand new to pua, and posting field reports, i feel its important to specify hb6,7,8,9 or whatever jus so the real puas can evaluate how stupid i screw my game up the hotter the girl is lol. and u are exactly right, i should run the same game regardless of how hot they are, but i get nervous as fuck talking to 7s, i think i might faint talking to a 10 haha. but thats why im here to improve.

another thing too, i dont really believe in the whole let me be a pua to get a girlfriend like i saw mentioned a few times in this thread, i dont know, does not make sense to me. its like playing football all through high school and college and getting really good skills at QB to throw one touchdown pass for an nfl team, and then retiring. whatever.

last thing, i dont think you should use a rating system on girls you have already closed. it doesnt matter at that point (unless 2 call u at the same time and want to fuck and you have to pick between the 2, in which case you got ur shit goin on with ur pua). i feel like rating a girl you have fucked or are seeing is only to tell other people, which is a bad thing IMO. like the tree falling in the woods concept. if you like her, great, everyone has their own taste and opinion. i remember reading a while ago that "if you are getting into pua just to lay girls and brag to your friends, you are getting into it for the wrong reasons, and will never get good at it" AND I WILL ADMIT, i struggle with this a lot, but i feel like its very true. and i feel like rating a girl you have already closed is doing that exact thing.

jus my 2 cents
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I like the idea of the Quality Girl rating system, so I'm already using it. I also think it could be useful to other guys out there, but its okay if someone doesn't find value in it and doesn't want to use it. To each his own.

I suppose it won't do you much good if you don't know what you are looking for or you don't have many options when it comes to women. You might be with a HB10 and be miserable, because she doesn't work and is a completely high maintenance airhead. If you just go by binary attraction, then all you know is that you like hitting it and therefore she is a yes. And you pass up on the nice and successful HB8 because she is not hotter than your 10.

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