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With this lay report I am giving something back to this community. You either learn something from it or you don't.
Saturday night , 2:47 am , "bellagio" nightclub.
She was standing facing the dance floor but not dancing and stroking her hair. For those who have developed a radar for those kind of situation ... she was there for a same night lay. I don't like rating women , but she was a 9 , nice ass , nice tits , but her face was too sweet for my taste.
I go directly to her , place my hand on her hip and :
Me : " We are 2 mature people and I am going to be honest and direct with you... you are very sexy and I want to fuck you tonight "
*complete shock + eye contact"
after 10 seconds of eye contact she says : "I don't know" ( and takes a step away from me )
This is one of the 3 variations of positive response and in this case I realize she never experienced something as bold as this , so after she shied away from me I quickly react.
Me " I am not going to apologize for what I want , but I am going to give you 5 minutes to recover. "
*perform takeaway" and went outside to smoke a cigarette.
I come back to her.
Me : "My name is Stelar"
She : "Adina" with a sweet smile.
Me : "It's already late and people are leaving , let's get out of here"
She : "Okay"
I take her hand and I make out with her in my car and we end up at her place.
-Clean and simple-
Note*
Direct done right cuts through all the BS and you get either YES or NO.
1. If you get a blank faced " No . thank you" or " I am not interested " then she is really not interested.
2. "Yes" has 3 variations
A) the case above is what I would call an "overload". when she wants it and doesn't know how to handle the situation. what you need to do is give her some space and she will come around.
B) This is the situation in which she throws a shit test. all you need to do is say to her that you won't apologize for being a man and leave for a short period of time.
C) This happens generally with mature women and in this case she will either jump you or tell you to wait to get her purse , coat , whatever and the job is done.
a very important element is eye contact. don't smile ,don't be angry , keep a plain face.
This is the pattern for 1 night stands.
Here is thing I want to add. This girl Adina has told me something quite interesting...
In one of our "meetings" I have asked her what are her thoughts on the way I approached her and she told me this.
She is tired of "boys" beating around the bush and talking about stupid things ( bragging and other juvenile discussions )
The second thing she told me is that the way I approached her was overwhelming and she said that for a moment she wasn't going to fuck me because she got overpowered and she didn't feel worthy. ( I understand completely what she is saying )
After I told her I will let her recover and left , she regained "stability" and told herself "don't fuck this up , don't fuck this up". These were her actual words.
In the end she added " I am not stupid , I know you are seeing other girls ... you are a player , but I do not care as long as you treat me right "
Since she is only 19 years old and inexperienced I will keep her around as my pet.
*I will not be going out this Friday and Saturday due to heavy snow*