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PostPosted: Mon Nov 04, 2013 5:36 pm 
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Well i am not a newbie not a pro in PUA community but i decided to write this field report about me gaming this Asian girl because in my country its pretty rare so i tried to ask in here yet i didn't get an answer/help so this might be useful as a guide if i succeed or a warning what not to do if i fail.

Little explanation: I went out with my friends. We met 2 Japanese girls who were 10 and 9. We found out they were ballet dancers and they have been in my country for 2 years so far. We had great night even invited them to a club we were going after.

Now to me: Whole night it wasn't like anyone of us was hitting on them we were just having fun only one of the girls could speak English well the other not so much so the friend had to translate. I was thinking about just making wingman to my friend so he can game the one that could speak English. So i tried to talk to the other one (was pretty tough) even when we were talking and it was something that felt to be important i told her friend to translate. Well it all changed when my friend made an imaginary marriage proposal to the one i was talking to so i though he wants here so i can keep company for the other one. We had lots of fun she tried to teach me ballet (which was super funny) then on the way to the club he were going together by holding our waists and she told me she like one song i had on my phone so i played it and made her sing with me (another great funny moment since she was really shy at the beginning but then she enjoyed it alot). So we got to club we danced a bit i danced with her friend as well then all of a sudden after like an hour or so they said they need to go (hug and goodbye). That night i posted a picture of all of us on facebook they even wrote a names of then in my fb account so i could tag them. Next afternoon she wrote me.

HER: Hello :) 9girl told me to delate that picture or set like not show to our timeline ? because her bf might see it and also some our colleagues already saw and i really dont want her to be in trouble ..
anyway thanks for the great night :) it was fun :D

ME:
i will set it so my friends can only see it

yea it was :)

HER:
Thank you :)

Me:
so when is the swan lake? :) (she told me i can come to her performance)

Her:
23rd :)

ME:
i want 2 tickets ;)

HER:
ok ill try to get them :)

ME:
thank you... never been to ballet
but always wanted

HER:
so will be interesting for you maybe :)

ME:
hopefully :D
did u write to my friend?
he did post the pic as well

HER:
well, just one thing, one of my colleague liked that picture, so now everybody can see.. so 9girl told me to delate and put the new one if you want but just delate the one which our colleague liked ..

ME:
:D
ok
that boyfriend is so jealous?

HER:
its not really about the jealousy.. its really compicated :( (HE IS ABUSIVE!!! which she told us the other night)
but thank you for your understanding !

ME:
sure i dont want to cause her troubles :) you guys look like a cool girls :)

HER:
Thank you


SO that was on Saturday i had alot of things to do since then and didn't see her on-line yet but i am planning to msg her and get her number soon so i can move out of FB chat to at least texting/calling.

Thats all for now any advices, criticism or applause is encouraged and appreciated.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 04, 2013 8:40 pm 
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Just had talk with her: I tried to start it just a regular conversation and then get into some deeper conversation and spark some good emotions and actually build some deeper comfort. It was like 40 min conversation it did pretty well at the end i thought i might have stayed a while longer but still had a good feeling about it.

BTW: None of us is native speaker so keep that in mind when reading :)

ME:
Hey there... how is it going? practicing hard for your performance? :)
HER:
hello :) im doing well thanks and you ?
not that much of classic SPAM but just for the musical which i have to dance some parts of them so i have lots of rehearsal
ME:
long but a great day :) ... ouu so in how many do u dance?
HER:
i think about 5.. but each one is not that long so its ok :)
were you working whole day today ?
ME:
kind of... since i came from USA couple weeks ago i am just putting my stuff together ... alot of boring things :p
cant wait to start working... still didnt decide which city in
HER:
you just came back couple weeks ago ? aww so you have a lots to do i bet :p
but you know what you will do ?
ME:
not yet i got couple option still deciding ....
My friend offered me to go to australia in fabruary so i might give it a shot if i wont find anything interesting in here
i am too young to just start working... i wanna see the world first :)
HER:
but that sounds great :)
actually my sis is working in Sydney SPAM :)
ME:
rly? what is she doing?
HER:
she is working in the souvenir shop, but this is not actually her real job, she just got a working holiday visa for 2 years so after i think she will go back home in japan and look for an another job but im not sure yet what she will do exactly ..
she thinks the same way as you that too young to just start working so seeing the world :p
ME:
:D she has a right thinking ... i would go for working holiday but slovakia isnt allowed to get them... and how about you u always wanted to be a ballet dancer?
HER:
yess since when i was like 8 :) haha
ME:
thats like dream come true
HER:
it really is :)
ME:
which part u like the most about ballet?
HER:
hmm when im being on stage this is the most amazing moment that never let me think i want to quit even if i had hard rehearsals or anything :)
ME:
ahhh that must be great... i had the same feeling when i was competing.... the moment when u know that all the hard work was worth it :)
HER:
exactly :) thats why i love my job :)

Then i stoped our conversation exchanged last couple of msges and said i need to go..
.. just wanted to leave her in a good emotional state so next time when we talk she will remember me and will connect me with that emotion. or at least thats a plan :)


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 11:25 pm 
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Well its been couple days since i last updated this thread. But alot happened today so i had to share my mind.

I wont copy paste the whole conversation since they are getting longer and longer... so will just summarize and point what i might have done wrong and what went well.
I did talk with her 2more times.
1st it was mostly just a chit chat nothing important mostly about our lives.
as i wrote before i am about to go on her performance so she asked how many tickets i wanted. I said 2 still need to decide if i will take somebody with me or go just by myself. I thought i will take a girl with me as a social proof but from my recent discoveries i think it might not be necessary but i will come to that in a sec.

So our today chat.
I used one of the openners i found here

"Sweet, charming, gorgeous, lovable... Well, enough about me. How are you? :p"

worked pretty well i didnt want to just go with hey how you doing wanted something funny. She laughed a bit and we started to talk. At first i felt like the conversation is going nowhere so i made foolish attempt since i wanted to ask her today to go out with me i told her i will be in here city (which is like 30km from mine) on Tuesday that if she got no plans we can meet up. She said she has like 1.5 hour window around 4 pm so i told her to text me when she is done and since i have meetings there i will tell her if i am done as well. (didnt want to ask for her number as i didnt felt like the conversation went good enough. As i said kind of foolish attempt. We agreed that "we will see". Such a fail :P . yet my old me would just quit the conversation and felt bad that i failed again thx to this community i continued chating. I acted like last couple sentences didnt even exist and we exchanged couple more texts. Then i started to talk about my cat... in my mind i was like wtf am i talking about but then i saw the light :D (yea so poetic) .
Here is what happened!

ME: she always come to cudle arround my leg when she wants to eat :)
she is almost the same as girls :P
HER:
haha not all the girls do that i guess :P
but at least she knows how to handle boys haha
ME:
:D and what about u... do u know how to handle man?
HER:
i will never know :D haha
ME:
never? why?
HER:
its just so difficult for me :D
ME:
what exactly u mean? i am confused :) i thought every girl knows
HER:
no i dont know so that means not every girl knows it ;)
ME:
u never had a boyfriend? (i got really curious its been very long time since i met girl like this but i wanted to make sure)
HER:
haha good question :)
ME:
answer would be much better :P
HER:
not really:P
ME:
:D (and i went silent and after couple minutes)
HER:
well ok i would say no :P
ME:
thats nothing you should hide ... its nice :)
HER:
well i kind of had one but it wasnt really like in a relationship so thats why i would say no :D

We exchanged couple more texts and i said i need to go.
So as i said i wanted to take some other girl with me to her performance now i dont think it will be necessary she never had a boyfriend i think she is virgin as well so i need to rethink how to handle this since she isnt spoiled like most girl in my country.

Conclusion from today:
1st) No matter how the conversation goes and what are u talking about u can always turn in into something great.
2nd) I am starting to like this girl even more because since i returned from USA (2 moths ago) i was sick of the girls that got used to be chased by guys whole day who think of themselves so high and even if i was just trying to only talk to them they are just being an ass and think they are more then me.
3rd) I need to initiate a meeting with her during next week because i want to meet her before i go on her performance. Which if all goes well would give an opportunity for Date 2. but thats forecasting.

Any ideas on how to invite a girl that has very little free time out without seeming needy? This was a good opportunity since i am about to go in her town but i dont think it will happen so i need to figure out some other way so i wont look like i am going there only because of her.


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