January 18th,
Goals For The Day:
- approach and open 5 strangers (must kill AA)
Game:
After school today, I decided to go to Barnes and Nobles to run some game.
As I approached the door, saw HB 7 walking towards the door as well. She was wearing a black and white striped shirt and looked quite confident. I held the door open for her while playfully saying "didn't know the zebra was back in fashion." Led to a 15 minute conversation as I teased her, and ran the Cube. Built some genuine connection and # closed.
Afterward, browsed in the music section and opened
two HB 7s and talked for 2 minutes. Then ran out of things to say and ejected. Totally lost momentum.
Felt like crap, moved to the poetry section and began to chat with this 40 yr old woman studying business. Turns out this was a professional life advisor coach who was holding a workshop tonight. Talked for bit, got some great advice on body language. Gave her my # and got her email, she was cool.
After exiting, I saw an HB 8 sitting on the bench. Really beautiful blue eyes. Tried to work up nerve to approach and did so. She detected my nervousness and after 10 minutes tried to close. Didn't give me her number but asked for mine.
Left to go home, filled with mixed emotions.
What I Learned:
-Don't get overconfident.
-Even though confidence is key, must also be able to hold conversation.
-Cube is incredibly effective routine and can lead to teasing, attraction and DHV.
-Must not run out of things to say.
-Need some more unique openers that are easy to remember.
-Need some more DHV stories.
Questions:
-Should I switch to Un-natural game or just add some components of Un-natural game to my Natural game?
-How do I Kino?
-What makes a great DHV stories?
-Is my menu effective or will repetitive opening destroy AA?
-How to maintain momentum even after a failed pickup?
Thank you guys, any tips would be great.
