Field Report Mini Lesson


I reunited with an old fuck buddy who left for Qtar two months ago. She kept in shape and still as cute as ever. Haha, apparently she was doing a long distance thing with a dude from Qtar and told me to behave....so I kinda did but not really. I went out with her and still made some advances towards her. She gave me some resistance but I made sure to instill some sexual vibe at this reunion. I don't really listen to what others want me to do. I behave if I want to behave. I kino escalated on her for a good bit. I still didn't get anywhere but I made it known I wasn't going to follow her expectations. I laughed at the long distance thing. I know the more she hangs out with me the more she will get hornier and hornier. Even if she doesn't fuck me, she will break her spell. Only a matter of time.....



One thing I realized last night. The importance of finding your niche. You have to figure out what girls you naturally attract and who already want to blow your balls dry. These girls will be the pillars of your success. Why spend time on girls who you will have to work a little more to get interested when you can focus on your niche and really hone your skills. My niche is Hispanic women and Black girls. Black girls like me, and they usually are receptive to me With this knowledge, I will try to focus on them this coming month.


Another thing. I have lost another pound and the fat is coming off. I have 5 more
Pounds to go to be officially a GOLDEN GOD. I will probably be unstoppable once I get my body in order. I've been gaming fine with being overweight. I truly believe now you don't need to be in shape but the health benefits of being shape are keeping me on this path. Also the fact that I will be able to fit into a suitcase full of
Clothes that I couldn't wear because my fupa showed will be great. Expect this winter to me full of lays. I'm projecting at least 10 lays. That's my max tolerance for new chicks. I don't like banging new chicks everyday . I did that last year and I just couldn't get with it. I like recycling too much

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A lot of newbies just don't understand this. You won't walk into a club and attract EVERY girl out there. It won't happen. Just like you can't focus on being a sprinter as well as a middle and long distance runner. It just WON"T happen.

Find who you naturally attract and concentrate on those persons. Note - I'm NOT saying that you can't date out of your niche, just to hold realistic expectations and understand that some groups of people will naturally be more attracted to you than others.

Instead of trying to attract EVERY girl, it's much easier to learn to identify and attract those who have a preference for you.

I think that's where PUA gets a bad rep. The marketing scheme of "have ANY girl" in the palm of your hand using this technique and this and this.

Newbies will have quicker success and less rejections if they focus on their NICHE, rather than attracting girls that they find hot as fuck but have to work harder to get. There are hot girls in your niche that you can naturally attract. Stop swimming up the stream and go with the current and perfect your skills. I agree with you that the message isn't "you can't date out of your niche" but more so if you want to get good at this game shit, start off with an advantage by knowing which girls already find you hot. Go after those girls and enjoy yourself. Once you start mastering your skills then you can start gaming outside of your niche. You might have an easier time gaming since you already have mastered the basic pillars of game.

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Update:



I am officially on a dry spell: One and a half weeks to be exact. It's funny to say because people are like "a week is a dry spell for you ?"

I have been using this time to read up on things, to play guitar, and to find ways to make extra income. So far I have figured out a way to keep my Spanish sharp and to make money out of it. I will be teaching it to other people. It's perfect. I am also learning American Sign Language which is also another great way to practice my nonverbal skills. So far I have been thinking outside the box and my skillset is growing very rapidly. I just thought I would let you guys know if you guys were expecting a field report any time soon. Maybe this weekend.

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Sorry no field reports lately. I've been too consumed with knowledge consumption and thinking of various ways to get rich on my own. Another daily dose of the red pill though.


My thoughts on paying: I will do it the first time. The second time I expect the woman to at least offer to pay. Offer. If she even offers the first time, then bless her soul. NOW, if she never offers to pay, this gives me the type of foresight i need to guess what kind of relationship we will be having. I will be paying for her all the time and she will enjoy my wealth at my own expense. Now, doesn't that sound like a great deal. If I wanted to be a sugar daddy, then I will expect to have a catalog sent to my house so I can pick a girl I at least want to waste my hard earned resources for.


Now imagine marrying this woman. Can you imagine that divorce going well ? She will gladly take half your shit because you know she hasn't been doing a lick of work because you've been financing her all her life. But what about a prenup ? Lol, good luck getting this kind of girl to sign that.

I came across lots of posts and statuses where a real man is only a real man if he takes her out to dinner and drinks. He isn't a real man if he only wants to netflix and chill. The only flaw here is that the man is paying for the dinner and drinks. If this is the case, I can take out the local prostitute down the street and have guaranteed sex at the end of the night.

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Went out with a girl I have been dating:


Its been about 2 weeks since my last bj and this is what happened. I picked up my girl from her grandmas house. I was thinking about the last two weeks. I have been horny as fuck. But its not like i wasnt doing anything in the meantime. I have been studying material, working, getting into my hobbies, trying to find my gift so I can start making money out of it...so I wasn't wasting my time.


I have also been listening to podcasts. As you have seen on my recent posts, they have become more logical and more and more masculine in tone. Now one of my big practices is spending less than 30 dollars on a woman. This girl suggested the waterfront and food. Now, I knew what this meant. This meant that I was the one that was going to be paying for this food so I asserted myself and told her we can go to a fancy deli because my ass was not going to take her to some restaurant to pay 30 dollars for a meal. The total came out to 20 dollars at the deli shop with tip. I was happy.


We then went to my place because it was raining so we couldn't really go to the waterfront like planned. I shared some comedy sketch ideas with her and made her laugh. It was easy and easy. She got all aggressive with me and pushed me back. I have gotten use to this from women. It's their job to provide some resistance, but I know that all I had to do was be a man and take her to my bedroom and thats what i did. Unfortunately, she was on the period so I just told her to go down on me. I didn't ask her, i told her.


Now what I've learned is that women will follow your lead. If you don't want to pay for a fancy dinner then don't. Tell her where you want to go. She will go. If she objects, then make sure she pays her half because you aren't an SPAM. The next time this girl asks me out, I will make sure it will be hanging out at my place. If she objects, then I know what kind of girl I am dealing with. In essence, this girl is behaving like a prositute if she expects me to take her out every time she hits me up. I did get a bj, but like I said, the truth is in the pudding. We will see how it goes.

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I got laid. I got laid with one of my fuckbuddies. It's funny how chill we are with one another. She's like yeah, we're gonna hook up tonight. Lets just enjoy ourselves while we are out with our friends. I was like okay hahaha.



Only notable thing from the night is one of the girls that knew me from college and is MY orbiter offered to buy ME a shot. Who am I to turn down free drinks. It's uncommon when girls do it for a man so I went for it. No questions asked.


Other than that, no big relevations this weekend. Only that girls like sex as much as we do and we shouldn't treat them like little flowers with a bee buzzing around it. They wanna fuck. If you understand that, they pretty much act like we do. No longer do they have to put a front like they were raised to. They will gladly be like, ok, put that dick where it says insert here no questions asked.


Only problem i have now is i don't remember if i finished in her vagina or on her back. all i remember is taking off the condom. Lets pray for a player here. Can't blame anyone but myself . I am fine though, im sure i didn't cum in her.

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Not going to lie, I am awake. Literally awake. My most recent posts sound angry...but I assure you I am not. I am just pretty much dumbfounded on how blind I have been most of my life. 25 years. I started being a great seducer at 19...but now at 25, I have realized it wasn't my fault. No one teaches you to be good with women. No one teaches you to learn what works and doesn't work. The teachers are your parents, friends, family, society, media, and they pretty much go by what they learned even if it didn't work. Whatever the media and culture says, it's true. I am grateful for PUA. I am grateful someone decided that enough was enough and someone had to teach what really attracts women.


I haven't been keen on picking up women lately. I have been too busy with learning about divorce and the laws that are unfair to men. Why ? Because isn't the ultimate goal to get married for everyone ? That's what I thought for 25 years. Even if I said I was polyamorous, I even considered marrying an open long term girlfriend if I got that far. But there's nothing in it for men to be married. Nothing. It's been a tough pill to swallow and I was actually sad to see that marriage ultimately was not the best choice for men living in western society. So pretty much the whole week, I have been squashing my dream of marriage. I have been struggling to accept it but that's the harsh reality.

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FIELD REPORT/LAY REPORT:


I went out with the materialistic chick on Friday. She hit me up. Why do I even hang out with her you may ask ? Well, I never understood her behavior and there are more chicks out there like her so it was more of an independent study where I go out and observe what she does. She has potential to be more than just materialistic chick but she is so out of touch with reality I think the reason she hits me up is because I don't put her on the pedestal that she is used to being on. She also realizes I see her as a person and she doesn't feel as lonely. She admits to not having real friends and admits to being spoiled. The sad part is she doesn't see she might be part of the problem. I always challenge her thoughts but when she starts making sense, social programming kicks in and she starts being the materialistic girl I know her to be.

One of the best moments that night is when I left my phone in my car. I told her i wanted to go back and get it. She tried every trick in the book to make me not go get this phone. It was hilarious. I told her to sit down on a step and stay put and that I will be back. She used these things "oh you got me, you don't need that phone", "oh i will put my phone away too you don't need to go" (the second statement was gold, she thought she had pussy power here) "oh it's too far of a walk" "can you at least walk me to the bar and you can go back and get your phone"


All of those were unreasonable and not gonna lie, it took mental judo to see what she was doing. I just started walking. She followed lmao. She was complaining but I just laughed it off. When we got to the bar, she went to work. She noticed one of her orbiters at the bar. I let her do her thing, she got her free drinks from him. At one point she managed to tell the guy to buy me a shot. That's another perk of materialistic girls, she knows how to really work these suckers. I took the shot. I wasn't doing much gaming at this point because like i said, I was doing this as a study lol.

At one point I did get bored because I already confirmed my beliefs and let her do her. I went to another bar and found friends I knew. I got a text from a girl who I banged once and told me she was in the area. I decided, sure why not. I met up with her and her friends. I observed her behavior now. She got possessive. She started grabbing my hand and assumed we were together for the night. I decided to let her think that. I kept my awareness about me.

Some PUA guys only tell you to use jealousy plot lines when you know what you're doing. I decided to this tonight. Mind you, the materialistic girl is texting me about making sure i don't leave her or to come back to the bar and be her orbiter lmao. I told her that I was busy at the bar I was at and that she can come to me. She was working one guy, why the hell would I even go over there if I already had a girl. She was just thinking about herself.


Anyway, I ran into ANOTHER girl that I haven't slept with but we flirt and make out some of the time. I got to talking to her and the girl I met up with got jealous. She started talking to other dudes in turn to make me jealous. I knew what she was doing. I had the advantage. The girl I was talking to, i know her for awhile now so the girl I banged once didn't know this. I admit, it was rude of me by not introducing them and the girl was like "Am I cockblocking you ?" and i told her nah, we aren't together like that. And it was true, I met her because she was out and about. It wasn't formal.


Anyway, the possessive chick says she is going to another bar where i know i would pay cover. I told her I will meet up with her in a bit. I stayed back with my friend. The girl then came back and said, are you sure you are staying, and I told her I will see her in a bit. Time goes on, I am shooting the shit with my friend and she starts buying me a drink lol. We both get drunk and we make out. So you can see why I didn't want to leave just yet. I tried taking her home but she always gives me this "I am on my period" nonsense so I don't really take her seriously. I actually tried to stop her from making out with me because it never leads to anywhere if you make out at the bar. She actually was the aggressor lol. I legit don't like making out for long periods of time and she kept on trying. Lmao.


Possessive chicks comes back and gives me drama about not going to the bar. She has done herself a huge no-no. I literally just observed what she is like in social situations and if things don't go her way she will throw drama at me. Especially if she is drunk. Whenever she is drunk, she will act like this all the time. She just showed me her behavior in one night. So, I play into it because I am drunk lol. Sober thoughts come in and I just piss her off on purpose because I know it doesn't make sense. We slept together once.


Now, drunk me is a horny me at that point. I was making out with someone, it didn't pan out. Oh yeah materialistic chick. Here's the deal, she told me she wanted to go home, so I went to see her and be a good friend but she then gives me some shit about "can we leave at 3 AM" instead. LMAO. I told her that my phone was on 2% and that I was working on some girls so she knows where I will be. I wasn't going be played like that. When I told her that I was getting some pussy she tried to get to come with her by saying "say im your sister" "you have my keys in your car" "you have my stuff"

Guess what. All she had in my car were shoes and a water bottle that she filled with alcohol. I made the right choice that night by not listening to her manipulative tactic. I told her that she can easily get another dude to do her bidding and that I was getting some pussy that night.


Back to the story. I texted possessive chick. She told me she was going to yell at me. I told her give me the address. I went to her house and she gave me some drama. I ended up just agreeing with her to just to get the silence lol. I acknowledged it was rude and she grabbed my hand and took me inside lmao. So basically, the jealousy plot line worked in my favor. It could have gone wrong all night but I did mental judo all night and eventually came out on top.

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There's a few things you have to learn in this world. That you can't let the emotions get the better of you. That you can't go too far off in one direction and forget that there is another path and that you should be improving all areas of your life. The other thing is always put yourself first because no one will do it for you. Your needs should be met before you consider anyone else's needs. If you're needs are met, then you can help other people if they deserve that help.

As for progress

Even if its a little bit in each area, you will feel immense confidence from completing these tasks if you make them rituals. For me, I have PUA, work ethic, piano, fashion, working out, and keeping up with politics has been added to my hobbies. If someone tells you to work on one thing, you will lack in other areas and then you will have to play catch up with that. Things that can be remedied immediately such as fashion don't require such a constant state of attention. Imagine if you couldn't afford the clothes you want or if you were clueless of what kind of person you wanted to present to the world. You would have to first get the money and who knows how long that will take for some of you and you will have the mentality of waiting when everything was perfect to start working on other areas of your life.


Life won't wait for you, girls won't wait for you, your age won't wait for you, and you certainly will be stuck doing absolutely nothing because you wait for the perfect conditions. It's idiotic thinking.

Just last night, a fuck buddy from Canada hit me up. We didn't end up meeting up but it was out of the blue. I told her not to wait next time . I believe she won't because she was heading home and wanted some sex before she went home. Unfortunately, I was in the wrong direction she was heading and she said she won't make that mistake next time.

I set myself up for situations like these because I make these things happen. You never know if you don't plant seeds. Don't wait for the perfect conditions guys.

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Thanks man. I think it's the final step to make everything come true. I heard somewhere that people have to write down these goals and make them measurable somehow. Keep reaching these small goals and eventually you end up with fantastic results. I will start organizing and goal setting better and including them in my journal. Let's see how far this will take me.

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Weekly Journal Update:



I have been texting a couple of girls lately. I have to double that shit to get my momentum back. The girl I was seeing, we had a falling out. She had this belief that she felt it was wrong to have sex when one isn't in a relationship. I could see the monogamy trap clear as day. I let her go. She even tried to come at me that "I knew" her beliefs yet I still tried to sexually escalate on her whenever we met. She knew MY beliefs and she knew I was a sexual man. I wasn't going to change my beliefs for her. She didn't take any responsibility in our encounters but I didn't bring it up since I didn't want to get into unnecessary drama. This woman has only had 4 sexual partners. I was the fourth. She would have been a monogamous man's dream of untainted purity, but she needed to find a man that was willing to date through the bullshit. I wasn't having that.



i am only back to a fuck buddy situation. Which isn't great since I tend to have sporadic fuck buddies because I don't really care to spend that much time with them. i am on the hunt for another woman to "date" in the romantic sense. I pulled a couple of online girls to my phone so that's in progress. I have been flirting with this older woman at work....I know I shouldn't really pull any trigger here but it's been great tension practice. I have been hit on at work my other coworkers so I at least can practice body language and kino etc.

What I got done today:

Cleaned my apartment= a good etiquette so women can see you're somewhat clean. Not too clean.

Piano lesson= 1 hour. My piano teacher charges 35$ dollars for 45 minutes. I have been taking advantage of my seduction skills by having her ramble on about technique and asking questions about specific things and she has gone over the time limit every time. She charges 1 hour for 40$, so I have been getting away with 15 minutes of extra time. I always compliment her and make her feel good so I can keep this going for awhile.

Food shopping= bought healthy shit. I want to be 184 pounds by the end of the month. I am 186. My dream weight is 180 by the end of the year. This is very doable.

Politics: I have been more involved in listening to both Hilary and Donald. I don't like either but the Donald will have my vote. Hilary will not after her feminist bullshit.

Fashion- I want to go shopping this weekend.

Workout= I will run 5 miles today. No questions. Even if I have to walk 2 miles of it.

PUA= Been rereading mindsets and keeping my mind sharp so I won't stray from what works. I've noticed how bad spending too much time on social media, watching tv, and being exposed to social conditioning can even make a little hole in my frame. For me, I have to reread and apply the material to make sure I never go back.

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Field Report:

I've been going and going and going the past few months and I felt myself burning out. This weekend, I did go out but I didn't really stress it anymore in my head. I kinda just chilled out while making small talk with everyone. Pretty much being the humble social guy. I met a few new people and reacquainted myself with others that came out of the social circle this weekend. It felt great. My energy is back to being the good guy with an edge and pretty much the natural that I have always been before game was even broken down into a science in my head.

I went out this Saturday night with my wing. I decided to try out the college bar where I knew the 21 year olds would be. I never thought about why I didn't aim for this demographic since I was used to gaming older women and women just a couple years younger than me, it wasn't that noticeable. However, this time, LOL. I definitely noticed, they had baby faces and I think some of them got in with fakes. it was hilarious to me.

I didn't drink this time, I basically tried to tackle two things at once this night. It was really intriguing. I wasn't really upset nor mad, more of a, hmm, this interesting thought. I was at the bar and opened people around me, the dudes were trying to make friends with me but some of them were clumsy so I had to reassure them that it's all good no worries. The girls I opened seemed a little flustered, it definitely was noticeable to me. I kept my frame but I just couldn't get over the youngness tonight. I found out I had a little inch of social conditioning left and that was young girls. The girls were receptive, no problems there, it was on me this time.

I talked some more but I ended up leaving because I just started getting creeped out by some of the stalking behaviors. A 3 set was hovering around me and when i saw mutual friends of mines, I went to the opposite side of the bar. A few minutes later the same 3 set were right around me again LOL. I'm sorry but I now know how girls feel when guys hover and it put things into perspective.

Anyway no real pulls this weekend, but a realization that I had a couple of sticking points left in me. I've been working on numbers lately as well, so it's not like I'm completely dry. I also figured out why some girls were peacing out on me. I treated them well when they were in my presence, but I never really stayed in contact during the in betweens. I pretty much hit them up close to the weekend. I will have to make my schedule a little more flexible and it shouldn't cause any drastic changes to my personal life.

What I got done this weekend -

Decided to go into a younger demographic
Wean off alcohol
Social skills still sharp
Sticking points realized and problem solving has started
Piano practiced
Clean home
Gym still good- eating habits have been slightly improved ever since ADHD medication


Not bad not bad.

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Lay Report:


Eh been working on this broad for a few months, kind of backed off her and let her chase me for a couple of months until last night out of the blue I pretty much had to push for the F-Close one more time. I overcame her little excuses for her not to see me. She sent me plenty of racy pics. Her first excuse was "I have class in the morning but i can make the second one" to which i just said "make the second one". Her next excuse was you would have to come get me "i said that's not a problem" to which the next one came "won't your roommate mind" to which i said "he will get over it if he hasn't the past 2 years"....i eventually just told her to stop playing dumb and asked her if she was ready.

She said yeah, and I told her to give me her address. I picked her up, brought her to my place. She was a chatty one, the one you want to stop talking for awhile. I told her to stay put while I freshened up in the bathroom. She was asking 100 questions about shit but I noticed her outfit was minimal clothes on. i just told her I'm going to stop answering her questions now and turned off the light and went to work.

Nothing major- just textbook meet up and hook up and no beating around the bush.

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Field Report:


Saturday September 24


I went out to the local watering hole. I got invites from two social circle groups but I decided to let the pieces fall. Once again I went out with the roommate and wanted to see how this would go. Right out of the car I went into approach mode, I smiled at a two set and they opened us. It seemed that they were going home or somewhere else because they were walking away from the bars. My dumass forgot to number close since they asked where we were going ahaha. I told her where we would be but I had a lapse in judgment about the situation and the reality of them meeting up. Oh well. First one of the night is out.


I got to the bar and went to work on the room. I walked and made eye contact with everyone and watched for people i knew. I talked to a few bros and said hi to a couple of broads. It was one of their birthdays so I told her i would play nice with her today. I ran asshole game on her since college. I was never going to fuck her but she had those "fuck me eyes" all the time she saw me. Her friend was cute though. Black chick with a nice figure on her. Too bad my fuck buddy came out of nowhere and grabbed me on the ass. I think it's safe to say the jealousy plotline was effective.

I smile at everyone else at the bar though. People were opening my group up and trying to be down but I was like yeah yeah. I was talking to a fuck buddy i haven't seen in weeks. I needed to recruit my girls on my rotation since I lost a main one. I have two fuckbuddies right now. i need a regular girl to be in my life. My roommate was trying to wrk but he is still learning. He definitely needs to be more aggressive. At one point in the night I told him to pull those two girls home who's celebrating a birthday. He wasn't going to do it until I said something. I told him to do it.

He did pull them home and i had my other girl on my lap during the drive. I think it was fools gold because my roommate thought he was going to pull a threesome. That wasn[t happening. I knew he didn't have the skill for that. I didn't player hate here, it's just an assessment. I woke up and drove my fuck buddy home. I asked my roommate what happened and he told me the black girl was being ASD. Both of them left that night.


I remembered gaming the black girl for a few minutes but she threw a "you just touched my boob" to which i completely ignored and moved on to talk to other people. This same girl was in the car sitting right next to me. She definitely was give me a hard time and was trying to be bossy to which i just threw right back at her. Oh well. You win some you lose some. At least my roommate knows it's possible to pull.


Edit:

Things to do:

Find a way to lose 5 more pounds.
Keep using organizer
Pay off a parking ticket that's been on my mind this week
Schedule piano lesson
Keep room clean!
Keep working out and stretching after
Keep up personal hygiene
Start looking into fall fashion

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