Well it wasnt an insult to you, looks like you cant take opinions and tips from others, just look at your post with the girl you we're about to lay in your mom's car or something like that, somebody post that you had lmr and that you should have continued, but you replied by saying that he was wrong.. i mean you dont have to try to insult me because im giving my opinion, one thing i know by reading your journal is that you havent copulate with anything yet, the day that you'll be able to pop your ''natural game of attraction by being so Alpha'' and ending it with a F-close, then you could say that you gained experience, again, nothing against you bro dont be so Beta when someone is trying to help

I agree that almost every guy is an AFC in a club unless he learned game, or naturally has game. Girls also tell me all the time, thanks for dancing/talking/etc... and not just rubbing ur dick on me I laugh and say, I am classier than that love.

When you return hope you have a lot more entries to help inspire others. I know there are readers out there who like em.

Plateau periods are a bitch haaha hopefully we both overcome ours, I think were stuck on the same one NC and KC and Dates [ X ] Consistent lays [ not yet ]

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I'm gonna have to agree with this guy. Man, you just can't take criticism and tips, can you? You act like you're the man in town like you're an MPUA or something and you try to bring down and insult anybody who wants to give you constructive criticism and tips. You're not freaking Mystery, Brad Pitt or a hot shot! Lower your ego...be humble, you don't have to insult or bring down anybody who wants to help you. Hell, you were responding to this guy and at the same time you were trying to insult me when my sticking points and situation are non of your business and I had nothing to do in your conversation with this person...

Saying things like: "Do you see where this is going? Or do you want me to draw a picture for you?", "You don't even know me..yet you can know what I think?? Hmm...where did you get your psychic diploma? Let me tell you one thing my friend..", "I'm currently at a plateau period. Have you ever heard of it??"

Well, let ME tell YOU "something my friend". By saying these things, you are directly attacking and insulting this man and by saying things like "I'm currently at a plateau period. Have you ever heard of it??" or "Do you see where this is going? Or do you want me to draw a picture for you?" is directly implying that you are smarter and better than this guy and you treat him like an idiot. You show no sign of maturity, discipline or most importantly respect which is the minimum anybody has the right to...respect.

"I'm trying my best here. It's true I'm cocky...but I really don't give a damn if people don't like me.You guys getting tired of my posts? Don't click on my thread, simple as that"
Really? "I really don't give a damn if people don't like me."?
You really lack maturity my friend. There is a major difference between being confident and conceited. Remember that!
You NEED to stop acting like a hot shot. Be humble, accept criticism, embrace it and you will reach your goals much faster, not only in pick-up but in whatever you want to accomplish.

I hope you take something from this and don't respond by trying to insult me or bring me down. You don't impress anyone by doing that trust me.

I know you personally and you've been a good friend of mine over the years. I wouldn't waste my time if you were just a douche bag I don't give a thing about.
You have the skill and massive potential and again, I really hope you take something from this.

Remember, critics are your best friends. Those who take time and tell you what you need to change or improve about yourself are the ones who really believe in you and know that you can be better. Those who never tell you nothing about anything are people who have given up on you... remember that.

Have a great day.

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I don't see where Valentyn insulted someone here. You guys should calm down. This guy clearly improved and you both didn't give him any piece of advice except put your thing in a hole which means nothing. It's not because someone says "he gives advice" that someone has to agree with his advice. It's been a while since I'm following this journal and I always see Valentyn taking advice from MrMatt (or other guys).He didn't insulted him or nobody here, you guys take things way too personally. Relax.

Keep going man, do your thing as usual. Your posts are fun to read and there's not a lot of guys who have this dedication of yours, success is waiting for you!

Really?

How can you say that?

First of all, what do you consider an AFC?

When it comes to dancefloor game, I agree with you. Most of the guys out there have absolutely no game on this aspect of "pick up" as they only go there when they're drunk and trying to hook up. But do this really make them AFC's?

I don't think so.

Because you are bad at something doesn't make you bad at anything. I'm an awful basketball player, but that doesn't make me awful in other sports!

I find dancefloor game really simple and I've had good success with it, but who am I to say that whoever that isn't good at it is a AFC? Hell, some of those guys probably have a better day game than both of us combined!

Personally, I pretty much always go to the same places and I get to know some guys, and they're everything but losers. How can you judge someone by looking at them for a couple of seconds? If I recall, I already went at the same nightclub than Valentyn. Yet, we we're unaware of each others presence. If 99% of the guys in a club are AFC's and he doesn't consider himself as one, do this make me a loser or whatever a AFC is? Or does it make him one?

Let's stop generalizing and start focusing on what is truly important
improving ourselves.



And as for the people who've been busting Valentyn's balls, I've been following his journal for a while now and I never felt threatened by anything he said towards me. Of course, I can sense that he has a cocky personality, but I do too. So who am I to judge him? Of course, maybe that he should have a look at some of the things he said and maybe drop his ego a bit, but hell, I prefer someone with a strong personality who can be cocky at times than someone who isn't confident in himself at all.


My perspective,

MrMatt.

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Cocky or not ; I love this guy's attitude/personality. He seems to believe in himself a lot which appears to me that he's pretty confident about what he can achieve and I don't see that in a lot of people.

I personally go out with guys who started picking up girls a year and a half ago, yet they still struggle with having consistent numbers or kisses. This guy's actually doing better than them, in half of the time that they've been practising, which to me is pretty impressive. He still has a lot of things to learn, but he's on the right path.

I'm hoping to read good stuff when you're coming back!

Although there certainly does seem like a string of jealous responses from less successful PUA types, we have to ask ourselves what is the end goal here? If it is getting numbers and dates thats great, but the end goal in my mind for a PUA is to be able to get to sex a quickly as humanly possible. This is the bare bones technical skillset that a PUA strives for, hell its why we want the numbers & dates!

There is a self development concept that can come simultaniously, or later on that should not be ignored in my opinion. However, this guy is already talking about making an e-book about a system he created by reading & training from guys who fuck! is he fucking? This is misplaced arrogance that cant be justified if he does not nail a chick when he has her alone, & doing foreplay.

As an aside I really enjoy these reports and hope that Valentyn takes the criticisms and obvious insulting jabs as fuel to overcome his sticking point.

For personal reasons, I changed names..this will be the last one I keep

I'll make a new thread just to avoid confusion

My life is going great and I'll soon come back with some nice reports! I'll come and post the new thread here when I'll create it..that way if anyone wants to stay in touch with my progress..you can!


Good success guys!

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So basically, I'll start the reports and at the same time keep working on myself. I worked more on myself lately than focusing on going out...I'm still working on my biggest passion which is soccer... and music also (DJ). I'm constantly enjoying life and I'm focusing a lot on not being affected by any outcome with any girl. It's hard when you have a real connection with someone, but I'm improving and I constantly push my self, day and night, non stop. The goal here is to become the best version of myself I can be and remove ANY feelings of neediness towards girls. I'm drawing happiness from within and I'm not attributing being happy to simply putting a dick in a girl. I feel very positive and good every day I wake up. I have to keep going and move forward...with that being said, here's my new thread already filled with 2 of my latest closes ; If you guys want to follow up my progress. Big thanks to everyone who helped me and I hope you guys keep in track with my journey!

By the way, I will not look to please ANY single one of you guys. I never did. Never will. If you feel like your ego's being hurt because I'm sometimes cocky, I can do nothing to you. I don't really care what people think about me. Enjoy my new thread it's going to kick ass!

here-vp647358.html#647358

PLEASE DO NOT MENTION THE NAME VALENTYN IN THAT THREAD. Thank you!

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