Opportunity: Went over to this hb8 23-yr old (3 years older than me). She invited me over and we are very flirty over text prior, but I'm not sure where I went wrong.
When I went there, we were definitely enjoying each others company but I saw no way of making it sexual or getting kino.
I think this has become a sticking point for me.
I tried once, when I was showing her something through her window. I pointed with one hand and pressed my body against her. She didn't lean back into me.
Second time I was sitting next to her on the bed. I started tickling her and she was laughing and telling me to stop.
I tried to make it sexual: "haha so you do kickboxing? so if i tried to take advantage of you right now you would kick my ass then?" her response was neutral "haha noo"
I'm trying to control the ego but tonight could have gone better if I knew how to properly control the kino and create some sexual tension. I feel like I played it safe (we talked for an hour and a half) and I'm getting the minimum rewards, which is hanging out again sometime. I do want to fuck her but I can't risk being perceived as that guy trying to get with everyone, so more iois are in order. She doesn't drink so I have to be 100% all the time. Curious as to how you guys would game an older, taller, more physically fit (she did triatholons..and won) girl that studies ENGINEERING. haha
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EDIT: let me improve on the details of how texting went. just some of the interesting ones.
me: nah tonight im not going out
her: haha only until someone asks you!
me:only if its you hb
her: you're such a charmer!
her:Ohhh are you stuck on some or something?
me: probably..maybe u can get me unstuck
her:Nooo think positive

you can do it
Haha I could try
her:You should come, but not now cos I gtg for a shower lol
me:well i think thats the best time
:ifyouknowhatimean:
hahaha
me:Ha! Now now
That didn't mean come now btw!
me:really? i was almost out the door
her:Loooool
me:bt seriously show me ur crib one day
her:Right, Ill be back soon, just gonna grab a shower. Ye definitely, I will

how late are you staying up tonight?
me:tonight isnt good
her:hey did you get through with bla bla
me:yeah i did. whats up?
her:nothing much, i was just wondering..
me:ohh so tell me, do you wonder about me often?
her: haha oi!
We don't chat very long over text if that's what you're wondering, this was all in two conversations. She went home for reading week. But I have made plans with her before but she flaked to go home that weekend. So basically I just try to be cocky funny and have her qualify herself to me all the time. I do say these things in real life but when I went over to her room I felt the pressure to escalate to something more or risk falling into the friendzone. I think i just need to fuck some more girls to get better at this one, seeing as I only just lost the vcard.