yeah but how do i find a wing? like how do i "game" guys lol? im too much of a pussy to even try out nightgame by myself so i definately want to find wings. my city is so small i dont want people to see me out by myself even though thats where the girls are

just creeped out 2 more girls lol.
woke up after taking a sleeping pill, was still in a sleepy haze and didnt have anything to do so went to the mall and stopped a HB8, brown girl very cute

me:excuse me can i tell you something very quickly, i saw you walking there and thought you looked very nice
her: oh thanks
me: are you by any chance an art student or something
her: uhm no, i work here and im on my dinner break
me: oh you probably work in a clothing store
her: no actually its jewelrys
me: oh ok......so when do you get off
her: in a couple hours
me: do you want to meet up for coffe or something sometime
her; no(grinning)
me: well thanks anyway

lol its so creepy just reading it back, i didnt build any comfort and didnt do any more assumptions so why should she say anything else but no. in my defense i was pretty much sleepwalking but still i really need help with this. i just suck at conversation, i dont even get approach anxiety anymore, its not nerves its just stupidity or inexperience or something lol. does anyone have any advice on how i could have kept the convo going there?

then later i stopped an asian HB7 and after my opener "you look really nice"
she angrily said "well im not interested!" lol i dont know if i just came off creepy or is shes asian and just not accustomed to this but i decided to call it quits for the day. enough to creep out 2 girls in 1 day

did seven more approaches, all at the mall

weather was shit today(not unusual here in iceland) so i went to mall on the other side of town. its a little bit more posh and expensive so not many people at all. was like a graveyard to be honest i wandered around for 2 hours and was only able to open 5 sets just because of lack of people. also the security guards were starting to give me mean looks so i left.
of the 7 approaches like 5 of them had boyfriends/husbands. im pretty certain that atleast 2 of them were lying just based on body language and tone of voice etc. but i dont know how to counter that. anyone have any suggestions?
good news is that im getting to be pretty calm in my sets, girls are starting to keep the conversation going for me at least a little bit. funny now to think a month ago i couldnt even get the words out and my hands were literally shaking. after watching this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNxwHlD1 ... AAAAAAANAA i wanted to go out today and do like 8 hours like Yad was saying but i was hungry and tired and there werent any sets lol so tomorrow ill go to the other mall that has more people and just not leave until i stay for like 6-7 hours i think.
btw i texted the thai girl a couple times and she hasnt responded and the other number close i texted and have her on facebook now.

42 sets
2 number closes

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

that's good that you are approaching and making conversation. i am not dating, but i get conversations with women in coffee shops two or three times a month if I try. i smile and say how are you? or just talk to them like you did. BUT i don't push for date or ask for their number. i don't close because it ruins the conversation and makes it creepy. if you ask, wait for an answer, and just observe them and let them decide whether or not to continue the conversation - give them the freedom to walk away, they will feel more at ease around you. you have to be ready to lose them before you can get a conversation with them in my opinion.
I usually stop after this and don't ask anything more. I don't turn away, but wait and observe them. If she does not say anything, or ask you anything, don't keep pushing for a number or a date. Don't talk anymore. Just smile and nod and after a pause go back to what you were doing. Leave it at that - flirtation. That might make you more seductive.

just bumping this so i dont have any excuse tomorrow. everyday i procrastinate and tell myself that ill go out tomorrow but today i looked at this thread and saw that its been more then 2 months. im knackered after working today but tomorrow when i wake up ill go downtown and do some daygame. even if its only one approach ill start back up again

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

only made one approach but atleast im back on track, opened a short Ukrainian girl HB 7,5, made a quick number close. im not back to square 1 like i was afraid of, wasnt very nervous and think it went well. tomorrow ill make atleast 2 approaches and before friday night the goal is to make 15 approaches

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

the weather was awesome in iceland today so i went for some daygame, made a few approaches but sets were few and far beetween because there were just so many tourists and not many single girls wandering around when the weather is this nice. didnt have much success and actually wound up giving my number out to one girl, decided to go home and stopped at the supermarket on the way home and this spanish girl asked me if i knew where the sour cream was. i told her and left, then decided to make on last effort so the day wouldnt be a complete waste and followed her out of the store. she was incredibly bubbly and ended up number closing me lol, didnt even have to do anything she just kept talking and talking, one of those fiery latina types very fun girl im sure. after i got into the store i just started laughing at how bubbly and loud she was haha, she even kissed me on both cheeks when we said goodbye which is NOT common in this country. ill try to meet up with her later this week and post here,

new goals for july
go out and sarge atleast 20 minutes a day every day in july
drop down to 110kilos(115 right now)
go to every rugby practice(yeah i picked up rugby its awesome)
no sugar and no caffeine in july and limit alcohol as much as possible

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

just came back from downtown, this weekend is a big travel weekend in iceland. lots of festivals and stuff so i figured maybe i could chat up some tourist girls since its always easy to create a conversation with them.
made 6-7 approaches mostly foreigners but nothing really went anywhere, did number close an australian 6 but dont think it was even her right number, she wasnt interested but i just pushed for the number for the fuck of it

then on my way home i walked a past a gorgeous brown latina looking girl, she was a bit older maybe 30-32 but exactly my type and turns out she was from peru where i lived for 6 months so i spoke spanish with her and made small talk, she wanted to give me her facebook but i just said no and she wound up giving me her number. she was so hot, i had a boner just talking to her, the other girls i talked to today didnt even do much for me, i just approach because there isnt much else available.
anyway we talked about meeting up tonight but nothing solid, i have like 5 numbers that i collected today and this week and tonight im going to text them and try to meet up with at least one but even if i dont im going to a bar tonight and doing some nightgame, daygame takes to too long and doesnt produce results as fast as i want.
if anybody has any advice for a complete newbie at nightgame then by all means post it, im going solo btw.i post results after i get home tonight

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

just had my first instant date, saw a girl wearing a wool sweater and stopped her. turns out she was an american girl doing an internship in iceland. she was only maybe a 5-6 but nice girl. i took her to the closest coffehouse i could find and we made small talk for about 30 minutes and then i number closed. i left by kissing her on the cheek, idk if thats "good game" or whatever but i wanted to try to escalate physically atleast a little bit. it went well i think, ill probably text her late this week
im just happy i didnt bitch out, in the past i would approach girls and a couple times they would actually say to me "im on my way to get coffe" and i would just bitch out and get their number instead of going for the instant date even though i knew i should. its going slow but atleast its going in the right direction

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

Hey man just took at look at your posts. Definitely can see your improvement. I've also been working on day game. Anyway to refer back to this post, I feel like you are trying to number close WAY too early. A number close needs to be something natural, like the interaction has to flow into a # close. I think you started off well with the opener. When she mentions working in a jewelry store, you should use that as a segway into getting her to talk about her (i.e. ask her how she likes her job, how/why she works there etc.) And then make some jokes/negs along the way. Or talk about why you thought she was an art student. You have to build some comfort before you ask for her number. But overall i think you're improving well and you are approaching a good amount, which is the hardest part but also the best way to improve. Keep it up!

thanks for that, you are absolutely correct i always go for the number even when i think she will say no. i think its definately a mistake the way i do it but its getting better for sure, one thing i did was just to write down 3-4 assumptions to have ready on the fly for when the convo runs out
they are
you look like you do x job
you look like you play x sport
you look like you listen to x music

nothing fancy but people like talking about themselves so it usually keeps the conversation going.

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

drullusokkur keep it up my friend you’re doing well, as they say you need to break many eggs to make an omelette.

Just for the record I have been going through the Daygame Blueprint as well and have found it to be more congruent model of pickup for me personally. It just seems strange to me to start talking about palmistry and visualisation routines if the situation doesn’t call for it, of course in the right context their fine. Also daygame seems offer a better environment then nightgame, usually nightgame in venues such as bars and clubs tend to be Alcohol and sexually charged environments which tend to make the girls question the authenticity of your approach, not to mention other things like AMOGS and the like that seem to happen rarely in daygame.

One point I would suggest in learning the model is take each phase and focus on only that and nothing else, of course if you manage to strike past that phase have a shot at going further but don’t make it your primary goal. For instance the first is the capture phase so focus on things like the Attention Snap, Prehistory, Observational Statement, Assumption Stacking. When you can accurately and consistently work through those steps without the target walking off or give indications that she will, move onto the next phase.

Also don’t be discouraged by your results ether, a quote I like to live by is the there is no such thing as failure only opportunities to learn, and it the lesson of life class is always in session. The big thing I’ve noticed with your field reports have been that you shoot for the number to soon, in most cases just in or out of the capture phase. She needs to feel that there is a reason for her to give you her number and you’re not giving her much to make that judgement on by asking for it a few lines in.

This where story and assumption staking come in, you need to develop that to keep her reeled in. A tip I find helpful and is something I think Andy or maybe Yad suggested is to get a notebook and sit at a coffee shop and pick random passers-by and make assumptions about them simply by how they look. This will help develop that skill set.
Keep the reports coming, I look forward to them.

PS: Also drullusokkur if your interested I have an free e-book that I'm happy to send you on how accelerate the learning proccess a bit quicker. Just some simple rules to help you on your journey.

thanks for that and yeah i would be interested in that ebook, can you send me the link

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

just f-closed the american girl, got her to meet me for drinks last night. we go to a couple of bars and just bullshit for 2-3 hours. then get her to my house and that was that. she was fun, big tits and she gave good head. who knew it was so easy, all you have to do is make yourself available and eventually you find a girl who wants to fuck, i only make like 50-60 cold approaches so far and already i got laid from cold approach and at the first one i could barely talk i was so nervous. cold approach might be very addictive for me lol
i go on a trip for a week with my father in a few hours but ill post more once i get back

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"what ultimately gets me in state are boobs. boobs are my motivation bro, i wanna get up in it. do you know what i mean?" RSD Jlaix

Thats great man, was this a follow up from one of your daygame approchs?