Hey PUA's,

I've been trying to compile a mental 'checklist'
to use before an evening of sarging; I've been
working on this a few years now, after LOTS of
DD review, maybe 20 of the DYD Guru CD's,
Field experience with wings, live seminars, etc. etc.

David D's live seminar on 'meeting women in bars/clubs
in NYC was an awesome weekend which really inspired me.

Work in Progress, but here's a few affirmations I've come up with:

1. What other People think of you is none of your business...

2. Women have better periphrial vision than guys; it's why we
get caught 'ogling'; Therefore, IOI's can be VERY subtle;
3 times today alone I got EC from a girl WITH a BF with her;
3 second rule applies to SHOW interest, but if they're with
BF, they EXPECT you to be discrete and approach them when
it's appropriate;
most guys MISS subtle EC chicks send out the corner of their eye;
Chicks will confirm this.

3. Guys want to relieve tension; thru sports, conversation, recreation, drinking, even sex. Tension is usually over a problem they can't quite solve.
Chicks are ATTRACTED to tension; Hence Soap Operas.
Do Not meet a girl and try to make her feel COMFORTABLE.
worst thing you can do. Tease her like a little sister; create
tension. to women, this is foreplay. keep it going.
C & F is based on this, as is ALL flirting. Consider it in your opener.

I've tried saying 'you can relax, be yourself, everything's OK',
to chicks, and I'm always put in a friend category; 100% of
closes I've made I always make the girl feel tension.

Tension things: Loud noises; a car backfires; sudden aggressive
movements (body language), loud laughter; I noticed at the
circus the other day the things that got the crowd's attention;
loud bangs, surprises, things that took your breath away...

4. Why we like Blondes...
Guys=testosterone=5 'o clock shadow, baldness, aggressive, maybe
even a pot belly.
Hot Chicks=estrogen= large eyes, blonde hair, flat stomach, perfect hip to waist ratio. all signs of higher estrogen/better child bearing...

5. guys choose women mostly by appearance; Heres how women
choose guys:

by scent = your cologne matters; some say they can tell your
immune status, therefore breeding capacity, by your smell.

by sight: chicks say ' he looks...bla bla, .. so he cares about himself...
He wears brand name..so he has $$ (gold-digger alert!) so
he could spend on me, making my girlfriends jealous.

by sound = he can talk, we can read how confident/alpha he is,
and how intelligent he is (breeding quality), and how
other guys relate to him tells us about his leadership
qualities;

By your passions/storytelling: You feel deep stuff, so you may feel
dedicated/committed to them, which is what they really want;


The remaining 5 points to be forthcoming; these 5 took years to
interpret, and each took at least 6-8 months of field testing to confirm,
and all were agreed to by the women I've asked;

Puzzle.

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awesome stuff. indeed, that's how women seem to think of guys.
about the comfort, I guess on phase two you need to build comfort or you won't get to the seduction phase succesfully. Your voice tone and straight face is key, but hard to be done correctly unless you become really cmfortable.

thanks.

great post puzzle, thanks

I really liked the bit about the tension. Guys do get a lot of tension--this tension just oozes with masculinity, if presented in the right way to a woman, you become irresitable.

gj

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That's true, tests have been conducted where women had to smell sweaty shirts from guys and when cross-referenced with both their HLAs (=elements in one's immune system) it appeared that the more different your HLA is the more she will like your smell. (have no quick reference though)

Your post has many good points, but here you should realize that in order for your seduction to work, the girl must be first of all comfortable enough around you to want to stay and listen to what you have to say. It's important to keep the attraction (i.e. via sexual tension), but it's absolutely necessary to build and escalate comfort as the seduction begins and progresses.

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Yeah those are some good points..

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i love the "passion/sensetivity" section, as it's really my specialty... still, i always hate those assholes with the guitars who use common shit ot make girls say "awww!"

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thanks for the info but i thought you were supposed to make her feel comfortable and the create tension afterwards

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LOL how'd this get a reply...jk good job man

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Bice list. The only thing I dont get is how you said she should never be comfortable. I always thought it was create comfort and escalate sexual tension.

Great list Puzzle.

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Virgin -> 60+ Girls in 6 Months!

you guys are misunderstanding him
build comfort so she doesn't feel threatened by your presence
but don't build so much comfort as to just get thrown into the LJBF zone

I partly agree with what puzzle is saying at the attration stage its important not to build up too much comfort that way attration never occurs so cf busts her balls till the moment is right then your shift into comfort your dont crack jokes at her twenty four seven you usually build comfort through dialogue

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