| Hi Stormy, you helped me tremendously.
As you can see from my post count I'm a total noob to this PUA community. I started getting into it a couple of months ago, and started working out at the same time. While lifting weights showed positive results, my pick up methods still sucked. I tried doing the 30 days challenge, got stuck on day 3. I read Magic Bullets, watched all kinds of PUA videos, learned Mystery's tricks but I'd still feel uncomfortable around women and while I did make out with a girl at a bar, I felt it was more the work of alcohol than my skills. Then I signed up on this forum, and read your thread.
I was very skeptical of natural game because I felt it was reserved for, well, natural players (ie: not me). And keep it mind, I haven't even read the whole thing yet, but what you said about vibing and being congruent with what you desire (also, your HOT text about sexing up a girl! lol) got me into the right mindset. My neighbor is a girl that'd probably score a 8 or 9, even for the true Masters out there. Her boyfriend is away for some time so she wanted to come over to chat, have a couple of drinks, etc... And I'm _always_ so awkward when I'm alone with her it's not even funny. Because my ego kept telling me that if I slept with her, I'd make all my friends so jealous and be the top player out there, it'd be like a dream come true.
But I wasn't thinking about that yesterday night. I didn't even want to sleep with her. Things are tense with her boyfriend and Im not one to take advantage of this, I just wanted to have a good time with her, and give her a good time with me. So I followed your advice, vibed, and things went flawlessly. We stayed 7 hours together, all night long until the sun rised again. Of course we flirted, danced dirty together, went to bars, clubs, and home. See, I was always the "nice guy", condemned to be friendzoned his entire life... But this night she told me she found me 'hot' and 'sexy' and I could tell she wanted more than to cuddle. So I pushed her away, because that's not what I wanted for that particular night. I really like her, and from last night I know she's crazy about me, but she's still with her boyfriend and there's no rush, they're bound to break up soon. But enough about my life, back to yours.
Stormy, you fucking rule. Because of all the PUAs out there saying "do this, mimmick that" you are the only (or at least the first for me) saying "make up your own method"... I feel like a lot of filters went down for me and I see the world in much brighter colors (and I'm not on shrooms). You helped me find my own "source" of attractivness and I thank you for that. I'm off to read some Tolle.
Miks, from Toulouse, France.
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