So I met this girl the other day, and she was pretty cute. So Naturally I followed the steps of the game, I ignored her followed by some negs and then we got really deep into a conversation about super heroes. Next I friended her on facebook and managed to get her #. I then FB messaged her and invited her to go on a "photographic walk" with me to takes scenic shots. She agreed and I set up the time and date, then on that day she stood me up.
I went on the walk without her ( had a great time), but I don't understand what happened. Did I do Something wrong? What's the next best thing to do, this whole situation is Exciting it's like playing a game of chess! So my question is, What my next best move?

Negs?! Lol. You probably creeped her out. Who wants to date a community guy who reads pick up books?

We all have to start somewhere. Thanks for your reply, but it's really not helping.

Ply... Ignore his dumbass comment... How will she ever know you are a guy that read pickup books and btw... Every girls I have dated in the last 6 years. Probably about 50 - 75 all know that I read pickup books and they still slept with me. Do not get demotivated. Next time, #close there and then. She might have a good reason for standing you up. Her father or her dog just died, maybe. Try and set up another meet. If she stands you up again. You made a mistake somewhere. You cannot read to much into your first real bit of success... Get it. Practise makes perfek. Just keep going at it and dont let morons throw you off your path

thanks for the encouragement. I have been thinking about this, should I ask her again in a way that would make her feel guilty about standing me up? or should I just brush it off like nothing happened? "dust myself off and try again"?

Talk to her in a way that gives the impression of "You standing me up didn't affect me much at all, but it's too bad it happened".

Don't make her feel guilty or start bringing this up at all. That's only gonna show you've been thinking about it all this time.

Brush it off. Too bad she didn't come with, but you'll try set something up for next time.




Yeah and btw, don't let that first guy's reply affect you in any way. He pretends to be cool by "not reading pick-up lines and books" himself, even though he secretly has no social life and would give anything to be in the position that you're in.



Good luck!

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thanks for the tip panda based on your advice, can you give me an example of what I should say?

I don't know who are you Mr Leek but i don't think you're being helpful, if you're gonna put people down just don't comment...

@Ply, don't worry i have dated a lot of hot girls and they all knew that i read books (its a good DHV in most cases). Also if i were you, i would ask her out again but don't show her that you were pissed off or anything, just play it cool

Good luck and keep us updated

Sorry

Wait for a few days then set up another date with her again, dont forget to throw in some tease about she stood you up the other time as some form of punishment in a playful way. Dont start off assuming the girl is flakey. But do not place too much hope on them either.

Cheers