Hi,

Long story short.... I was out with some friends, was very drunk (mistake i know), somehow managed to pull a decent 8 dont really remember much of our conversations, but I remember negging her, because her kissing was very fast and saying she was very keen, to which she responded 'I just have a very high sex drive' I thought this was definitely going to result in success, but somehow in my drunken state, managed to not get her back to mine.

My question is I have now added her on Facebook, what should I message her, I am thinking about these two, which do you think is better? Any other suggestions? the aim is to get a day 2 and hopefully close it.

1) 'What sort of trouble have you been causing since the other nightt?'
2) 'So bottom line you kinda impressed me the other night...and I don't get impressed very often. Keep up the good work !

What do you lot think?

"Hey, I was pretty drunk the other night did we make out? or was it that other girl?"

or

"Hey, I was pretty lit the other night, I think some of my charm may have fallen in your purse, we need to get together so I can grab it!"

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Obv. number 2 is more direct while if you go with number 1 it will take more messages back and forth before you have a chance of getting to the place you want to be.

Id use something similar to number 2 if you think theres a decent chance of it pulling off.

Aaarrrggghhhh!!!!!! Read this until its so embedded in your psyche that its burned into your soul:

Text is NOT for escalation or comfort. Text is for 1. Establishing that you simply know the person. 2. Logistics.

That's it!

Message her: hey! Hope you got home safe/had an awesome night/ some nicety/ whatever (you are simply reminding her that you are that friendly guy she met). Let me know when you want to hang out and party again.

She will either ignore you or respond letting you know when she wants to hang out. Simple. You need to establish that you want to see her again but you won't chase her. She can either hang with you or not, you want her to but your not bothered at all if she doesn't.

I used to send "funny" texts all the time. You know what I got? Sore thumbs. It's needy and communicates that you dot think you are attractive enough so you need to "convince" her to hang with you.

If you want to build rapport and set a day 2 you need to call. Even then the primary purpose of the call is to give her the chance to hang with you again (when you call you can say let's hang here at this time right off). You attract girls with your body language and your facial expression first, closely followed by your timing and voice tonality. Don't ever forget that!!!

Be confident! Go for what you want. Failure doesn't matter.