SO ! Not trying to prove anything but unlike guys who've been on this for years, over few months, I just transitioned from an AFC to let's not say an Alpha but, one step close to it. It surprisingly attracts more girls, but I wanted you experienced PUA's critique this text-game to see if I'm doing it right.

Just for the sake of clarification :

I'm calling her Hobo/Tramp, because earlier she got this 'Hobo Attitude' on just for fun
Hitler is her Boyfriend .. And yeah, she got one. I call him so because the guy speaks German .. Really well.

ANYWAYS. I'm not interested in gaming this girl as long as I am interested in IMPROVING my game. And it goes like this:

[We haven't talked for a couple of days]
HER- ANSWER OR I'LL JUST START SCREAMING !
ME -My little Hobo ! I swear if I meet you again, I'll just grab you and kiss you like there's no tomorrow [I pulled a lot on this one so..]

Or you know what, I'll hate having a Mouthly Transmitted Decease. Let's just stick with 'I missed you' [Still not quite a good Push, but I compensated for the first one :$]

HER - Oh reaally xD A day will come where you'll just crave to kiss me, and won't find me
ME - Don't worry, the day I'll feel like kissing you, I'll kiss you, up until then, let's just stick with ' I missed you '
Anyways, good luck at Bad Timing Awards, I was just leaving.
HER - Yeaah. You never kissed me. And you won't
ME - I've got nothing to prove, we'll see
HER - Yeaah asshole, just leave.
ME - 'Asshole' is an attribute that most men out there don't have, so I'm Lucky.
HER - You are
ME - ..To have you in my life [I don't know WHAT THE F**K I was thinking here]
I'd still consider myself lucky even otherwise though [Yeaah, cover it Dumbsh!t]
HER - Yeaaah, continue kissing my ass xD
ME - I know, my lips started to go numb [It's like I confessed I was kissing her ass .. Idiot]
Anyways Hobo, go pickpocket people in your hood or something Hitler thaught you, I'm out.
Her - Hahah, I'll miss you asshole
ME - I'll miss me too
Her - Yeaah, you're damn misseable

[END OF CONVERSATION]

In general, I think it went well. But It's the little details that I want to improve. Is that THE attitude to go ? If not what is it ? And what would you say instead of what I said ?

Thanks a lot guys !

You will not get better by focusing on one girl. That is creepy. She has a boyfriend. You should have better STANDARDS

GFTOW


Don't text without a boner.

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Your post really made my day. But absolutely not, I'm not focusing on her, on the contrary, I'm spreading my bets. As I said " I'm not interested in gaming this girl as long as I am interested in IMPROVING my game "
I just wanted some critique. Brutal Truth

Oh. I read that wrong. I thought you were trying to persue her to practice your "game." But ya. When I started out I was like "boyfriend? I'm gonna fuck this girl." It just does damage. I really don't need to disrupt someone's life like that. It's wrong.

You should have some direction in your texting. I honestly don't recommend any texting or initiation of contact when you're starting out. You should build up a base by going out and closing. Number-close. K-close. F-close.

Once you have a string of women around you, and you are being more productive with yourself in your personal life, you will actually realize that certain connections and chemistry just isn't rare at all. Once that attitude sets in and you have it as a strong reality that you are making the choice, and not just fucking who will ever fuck you that's roughly good enough, you can use that as your foundation to build up your game.

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That was great. Finally someone else on this forum who understands you can call a chick hobo or bratface and they eat it up. You followed all the rules in my text advice thread (without reading it) and have banter going like crazy. Keep that shit up and start to flirt with her more. Calling the bf Hitler is like the Strawman/neg/compliment/tease all in one. Very emotional impact. Nice.

You are 20 steps ahead of many with text game.

Props bro, SK.

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..And Slipknot's post made my day even more !
Thanks guys, I still have lots and lots to learn.
Appreciate that

Is it me, or does it look like the girl is more alpha-male in this interaction?

Your texts are far wordier than hers, you got more emoticons in there...and she's giving you somewhat sarcastic short answers. Does this constitute a good text interaction?

As life tends to be, you can do whatever the hell you want if you've already developed rapport and attraction. If she likes you, you can call her German BF Hilter. If you are not at this level with her, you come across a bitter douche.

SO with all things being equal, I'd have to say that text banter was promising, but kinda weak. The "asshole trait" stuff is something you want HER to say, not bring light of it on your own. The cocky and funny needs to take a self-deprecating turn at some point, IMO. That gives your character more dimensions and opens her up to interact with you more. If all you got is references to yourself being alpha-male and "asshole", she's only left with little comebacks like "Yeah Asshole. Just leave." While this is banter, its not exactly the two-way street you want in a back-and-forth interaction.

Maybe this is the way things work in High School nowadays, but if you want more than just a player/cocky rep, then maybe you want to diversify your texting tone a bit.

Yup, that's the kind of 'Brutal Truth' I wanted. RiRi, what you would've said rather than I did in some of these answers ?
Thanks

Sorry I'm new here because I wanna learn from the pros, but I'm gonna try to contribute to obvious needs before I take a bit...
Dude you've gotta keep leading the convo somewhere you know you have a move. It's a game of chess bro that you were supposed to be the grandmaster --and somehow you got check mated in. You can start a new game now if you want, but you left with absolutely ZERO options other than to wait for a few days to say "Yo." Zero reason not to do that, but just be better next time.

This is always tough because there are circumstances, relationships, established inside jokes, your own personality etc.

You can't apply any exact words to an interaction but you can apply TONE. Plus, you have a personality that reflects what you write. Just for the sake of keeping in line with her answers, I'll answer them as is.

HER- ANSWER OR I'LL JUST START SCREAMING !
Me: Vocal hobos don't get any change.

I'm super sarcastic, obviously.

HER - Oh reaally xD A day will come where you'll just crave to kiss me, and won't find me
ME - Hobo to nomad?
Anyways, good luck at Bad Timing Awards, I was just leaving. (I like this)
HER - Yeaah. You never kissed me. And you won't
ME - Its all good, I can't (its a shitty situation that she said this in the first place, but this will at least make her wonder WHY???)
HER - Yeaah asshole, just leave.
ME - I'll take asshole in stride but I won't leave...wait that didnt sound right.
HER - You are
ME - I am
HER - Yeaaah, continue kissing my ass xD
ME - I know, my lips started to go numb (I liked this)
Anyways Hobo, go rummage or whatever it is that you do and let me know if you find anything cool.
Her - Hahah, I'll miss you asshole
ME - "I'll miss you asshole" said Lube, waving goodbye solemnly.

So as you can tell, I'm being really dry yet engaging. I'm giving her chances to say some funny things or comeback with banter of her own that is actually going to reveal more about her.

Is she cool with your sarcasm? Does she take it well? Does she laugh at your jokes? Does she joke back? Is she cool with sex jokes? If so, you can build on this to do some sexual framing. The more she's comfortable talking about sex with you, the more comfortable she'll feel actually sleeping with you. You know why? Because she's already imagining sex with you (assuming attraction is already there). So these are all things to think about and consider when exchanging ANY interaction with a girl. You are doing a bunch of recon, and using the info on the fly. THAT is the key to understanding what women are thinking and understanding what they are cool with, and aren't cool with.

Honestly, if she can't answer those questions in my favor, I probably won't even give her the time of day because I want somebody who is engaging, funny and interesting. If you have a choice, you should not settle for less.

For pull-push to work, its about how you treat yourself first, second how much of special place you give to the girl! Here you must introduce talks about another girl you are seeing in conversation with her and maintain your push pull to manage some hyper BOOST in the way she looks at you. When satisfied with your game, just dump her with her hitler!

- I hate it when I try to make a girl chase me and end up thinking about her while talking to some hot chick!

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She re-texted me. Since the last time we talked :

HER - So I'll see you in a couple of days, huh ?

And I simply replied by a ' Yuup '

So RiRi, you're saying that I should give short, dry but still ' developable ' answers, am I right ?

Whatever you were doing before, keep doing it. It was authentic, natural and the chick sounds like she loved it.

Don't change your text game!!!

PS: Those sexual texts were awesome

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In this case, you should be clear on plans. If you sound flaky on this it won't come across well at all and you'll just be digging yourself a hole.

If she brought it up, we can probably assume that she's looking forward to it at least a little bit. Be clear about plans, forget about push/pull and all that BS for the moment and lock the plans down. Work your game when you actually see her.

I have answered them in the way I would have, of course this would probably change the responds she would have given.


HER - Oh reaally xD A day will come where you'll just crave to kiss me, and won't find me
ME - the day I'll feel like kissing you, I'll kiss you, up until then, don't get your hopes up.
Anyways, good luck at Bad Timing Awards, I was just leaving.
HER - Yeaah. You never kissed me. And you won't
ME - look I know you want to kiss me and all but I'm not that easy!
HER - Yeaah asshole, just leave.
ME - you're not going to say that when I rollover and go to sleep are you?


from here down it would be diff. But good recovery on the next 2 you sent because you did fuck up there.

HER - You are (this would change)
ME - ..To have you in my life [I don't know WHAT THE F**K I was thinking here]
I'd still consider myself lucky even otherwise though [Yeaah, cover it Dumbsh!t]
HER - Yeaaah, continue kissing my ass xD
ME - I know, my lips started to go numb [It's like I confessed I was kissing her ass .. Idiot]
Anyways Hobo, go pickpocket people in your hood or something Hitler thaught you, I'm out.
Her - Hahah, I'll miss you asshole
ME - I'll miss me too
Her - Yeaah, you're damn misseable