Hey guys,

I'll try and make this easy to read instead of putting up a paragraph wall. Here goes.....

I've been going regularly to this coffee shop for about a few months. There is a girl.

Interactions /w girl to date
-mainly just hi and hello
-light convos <kind of like discussing the weather, very brief>

<main IOI>About a 2 months ago she started giving me free coffees every so often which then became more frequent as time passed.

Decided to pursue and offered to take her out to dinner as a thank you for the drinks. Left her my # (probably should've got hers). No call or text from her for 2 weeks I feel a little dissed but oh well I tried at least. Still kept going to get coffees like usual but I decided to start rejecting the free coffees to send her a message and I did with a smile and some class.

Last week, she sees me in line and tells the cashier to use her employee discount on the coffee so when I pay its 30% reduced automatically.

note:

-I've actually asked her why she gives me free coffees. She said that she does it for people that are nice to her.......I'm usually in and out and rarely stand there having long conversations so that's BS in my books.


Questions:

1) What is happening here? Can she be waiting just for ME to ask for HER #? - seems like an awfully large risk on her side. I could lose interest and never ask her again which is very likely.

2) How do I ask her out AGAIN without sounding needy?

3) How can I probe or do something to initiate an IOI out of her?

I think she is giving you IOIs up the ass but wants you to quit being a pussy.

Think about it, what if all the customers are nice to her? Is she just going to give free shit to everyone all day? All her customers probably ARE nice to her.

Since you gave her your #. (AFC as hell don't ever do it) She now knows you're interested back so she is sending more IOIs

Next time you see her, GET HER #!!

Hand her your cell phone open to the dialer keys before your order your ball less extra pussy deluxe coffee. Then say "Put your # in my phone." Act is if this is socially normal. If she asks why, say "cause I want it to happen." And mean it!! She should comply.

I'm getting pissed just reading ?s like this. If she won't give it up, she lost interest once she was drowning and you through her a life jacket.

Don't hand out your life jacket, pull the HBs out of the fucking water.

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Understood. Thanks.