Say you are at a party. There are probably more guys than girls, and ALL the guys are trying to pull girls, but NOT all the girls are even good looking. The ones that are are being bombarded with attention from all the guys in the place. What are some good ways to deal with this kind of competition? It's the worst feeling when you see a girl you were talking to walk off with another guy- it really messes with your inner game and confidence level. It happened to me last night and I want to make sure it doesn't happen anymore.

Also, sometimes I start talking to a girl and I just don't sense that much interest. In these cases, should I just be trying harder, or should I just let it be, as it's a "numbers game"? Because if there are only a few hot girls at the party, I don't want to completely give up when I don't get any initial interest, but I also don't know what to do when the girls A. aren't all that impressed with me and B. all the other guys are trying for the same girls.

I'd really appreciate any advice. I have a party coming up later this week and I really don't want to find out the next day that a bunch of people got laid from the party, but I went home alone because I got outgamed by some other guys or didn't move fast enough.

2 advices:

1: read this: kiss-the-cockblocks-ass-vt144094.html?highlight=

2: To have the girls interested in you at party's you gotta be the guy of the party. How do you do that? Simple. You talk to everyone on the party INCLUDING the guys. What does this do? It shows that you have social proof, that you know people, that you can connect with people. The girls notice that all the guys have fun around you, and they want to be part of that fun. BOOM! Then isolate a girl you like, have private time, make out, take her home with you and BOOM! -> sex. Naah, that's not always the deal. But seriously you get the point right?

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