So today I was poked by a random HB on facebook (a 7 or 8 I think). I write her a couple of hours later.

me: Faceraped or didn't your parents teach you not to poke strangers?;)
her: Oh, probably the later
me: hmm bad girl?
her: You never know! But something I know is that you are beutiful !
me: your daring at least name three things which makes you interesting (not looks)
her: Hm... Oh! I'm extremely nice, have good humour and am good in bed !
me: Sounds like a good girl:) send picture so I know what you look like#####

she textes me one of her FB profile pictures and adds a smiley.

me: you know what?
her: what?
me: we should meet during the Holiday

The brake begins next Friday. HOWEVER, she stopped replying now so I turn to you guys! any advice on how to proceed? I think that she is using a system of going through random guys on FB (probably for attention) and then weeds out the boys she doesn't like based on their replies.

I'm thinking about waiting untill tomorrow and then text her "take your silence as a yes, I'll call you next week sometime. Word of warning though, I'm a bit picky when it comes to girls so don't expect anything;)

ANY solid advice appreciated

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I think you may have jumped too quickly to talking about meeting up. She may think you're "beautiful" but still needs to make sure you aren't some loonatic before commiting to meeting up with you.
If it were me I'd give her a day or 2 of "space" and see if she re-initiates. Then re-open with something a little non-threatening "haha I just made you look at your phone for no reason :p" for example, get a convo flared up then bring the topic back to meeting up a little later after you've disarmed her a bit more and built a little comfort.

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Yeah thats better than what I would have done, but she replied this morning actually

her "I study in Uppsala though and I have Holiday next week! But lets arrange something:)"

Uppsala is one hour away and I don't have a car..

I probably have to start normal convo now and find out how often shes in Stockholm. I'm seventeen and shes one month older, just turned 18

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just wait her out unless you have a seperate intention for contacting her that doesn't revolve around the last one, she is aware of what you proposed, just wait it out see if she thinks about it and gets back to you, if a good amount of time goes by (a week or so) and you don't hear from her and want to get in touch, do so, but don't try to re-pitch this same invite, she knows you want to hang out on the holiday, no need to beat a dead horse

Also - follow the random guy method.

Issue a text afer 48 hours...

"Want to help me rob a bank?"

It's a great role-play scenario that seems to always get them at least responding...

Then respond with "Seriously, I need an accomplice. You driving or shooting?"

Now, you're the fun-guy. She's able to 'excape' with you... You can transition here to a sexual overtone (if she's receptive), or continue the role play. Discuss hideouts, the getaway, etc... make her have a role - neg her through text, always fun, always entertaining...

You build the premise that you're an escape from her boring life. YOU hold that key.

Pump's right... you announced your intentions. If she responds to you now - she does so from a knowledge base of what your intentions are...

Good luck.

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Update on this one:

Invited her out to a club. She wasn't as hot as I thought I started gaming other girls, she left. She wants to meet me again. Not sure where I stand on this as I don't invite girls over when my parents are home.

Moral lesson for me: never invest with a young girl online you haven't met in person. The pictures they show aren't portraying the real deal. This has also happened to me with girls I've only interacted with on the dance floor.

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Nice lesson.. haha. Been there many times with online dating. The profile pictures look good, the conversation, texting, even phone calls go good... then BAM, you meet them in person and are like WTF?