Faith is a clear HB, an education major with beauty and job security as well. Today in class we chatted briefly, nothing to special. With a project coming up, we exchanged numbers, but until I actually interact with her, like in person I'm reluctant to do anything. So what do you guys think, should i use the project as an excuse to get some time with her out of class, and even more-so, what kind of kino should i work up toward after this first hangout. She told me today she works almost every day, so I'm worried that she'll be busy often, and therefore reluctant to hangout. Also, and first hand experiences with HB 10s would be greatly appreciated.

imagine for a second that hb10s are the same as hb4s, just generally with more option, and out of their options most guys tend to get needy and revert to being pussies around them and will try to be friendly, for the most part 95% of all the guys they know don't try to sleep with them, but rather hope something magical happens, they hope they say or do the right thing and the girl will try to sleep with them as a result of what they have done, whether that thing be acting overly positive and friendly towards them, or overly negative towards them, they are looking for that one thing to do to get sex from her so that they don't have to be responsible for it happening,

now with that in mind, imagine while you are trying to get this girl, that she is ugly, she hasn't been laid in 10 years and is sexually frustrated because she might be judged and viewed negatively socially if she does anything towards ''SPAM the pussy'', and for what ever reason this is her greatest fear, to be viewed as a ''slut'', there for she can not take responsibility for having sex, no matter what the guys around her say, or try to get her to do, she wishes she could, but it is too frightening of an idea for her to possibly be judged, she would rather just not get laid for 10 years straight and go home and masturbate then be viewed as a ''slut''

now, after that, imagine she wants to fuck you already, but she can't do anything about it or take responsibility for it, to the point where she has to fake not being to into it so that she can uphold her social reputation

now when you have that mindset covered, figure this out for yourself

what do you want to do when you are around this girl?

do you want to kiss her?, do you want to have sex with her?

now what actual action can you take, towards this goal? how can you make that happen?

then do that, she either accepts that decision you have made, or she does not, after she has a reaction, be aware of her choice, then it is back to the drawing board (don't forget the above few paragraphs when making your decisions)

now if she didn't accept what you did, was that too much too soon? is she scared she is partly responsible for that? how can you back off and make that choice, more appealing for her?, if she did accept that decision what is it you want to do now? how can you make it an easier choice for her to accept your decisions? you want to have sex? is she horny?, is she worried about her friends that are 10 feet away seeing her?, is she comfortable being around you and having you do XYZ?, how does she feel?, what do you want to do? what is your goal?

GOOD LUCK

Well, logistically I have an age difference working against me, her being a senior and I being a freshman ( in college ) but age is only a number. Ideally I'll sit next to her the next class and flirt, and treat her like an HB 4. I'd definitely like to kiss her, and fuck her. But I just don't see myself getting to that point with her... Is it confidence that i lack? and how do I gain it... quickly!

You clearly lack self-belief which is the #1 thing you need to take her to bed. One of my really good friends is a Russian HB10 who works in fashion plus models & does some acting. The one thing she always asks me is why I'm so comfortable around her when other men aren't. She told me a story (while laughing) about a guy we know who she went for a drink with (she didn't treat it like a date but maybe he did) and he was literally shaking while talking to her. She also gets really angry when men are being unnaturally nice to her. She's smart and knows they want something from her.

What I'm trying to say is that as her feedback suggests the most important things are confidence and body language with this type of girl. They are used to being treated differently to other women and they hate it. They want to meet a guy who is manly enough to treat her like the slut that she is rather than acting as though she is a Goddess or above anyone else. You need to stay composed and lead her like a man should. If you show her that you're normal, stable and capable of leading then you have a change. I've closed a few girls I'd consider to be 10s and I found it easier than closing 8s or 9s. The reason is most men don't have the balls to do it.

Just be confident, be yourself and stay calm and relaxed. Lead her and behave like a man. You can only tap it if you believe that you can. If you behave as though you have no shot then you have no shot.

Good luck!

confidence is a state of certainty
situational confidence is when you are certain of what you are doing in a particular situation
self confidence is being certain of your desicions

to build situations confidence, repeat the task you want to gain confidence in doing over and over (for example, ride a bike, you may suck at first but the more you do it, the more confident you will get about doing it, until you just know it is easy)

to build self confidence, put yourself in new situations, make yourself feel uncomfortable and face your fear of the unknown, until you feel less uncomfortable in unknown situations, constantly challenge yourself to do things that you fear, and start trusting in your own choices

self esteem is your own perception of who you are, it is how you view your own self worth

to build your self esteem you must first understand what your belief system is revolving around yourself, and to lower or raise your self esteem, that belief system has to be altered

here are some ideas to build self esteem with,

try thinking more positive thoughts on a regular basis (google the positivity challenge)

try setting goals for yourself attempting to achieve them without having to reach perfection and being ok with that before you set out to complete the goal

view your mistakes as an opportunity to learn and develope a better understanding

try new things that can help bring out new skills or help you improve as a person

reckognize what you can change and what you can not, work on improving what you can change right away, and work on accepting what you can't change and learning to love yourself

set goals and track your progress

have pride in your own opinions and ideas

give to others, try to do something for other people where your strengths lie, genorosity makes you feel great and it not only helps your own self esteem, but it can help other peoples self esteem as well win/win

excersise or join a gym, being healthy can help you look and feel good, and this can help shape a more positive view of yourself

do things you enjoy/think are fun

if your self esteem is extremely damaged and you are self loathing or think you are worthless or have experienced some trauma or pain in the past, you might want to consider seeing a professional counselor to help you address your belief system

confidence and self esteem, the two go hand in hand, one feeds the other and vice versa, there is no magical pill that can make you confident with a high self esteem right away if you are not already, but you can build both up and improve yourself

a good place to start would be talking to that girl and telling her you find her attractive and trying to ask her out, outside of school, and be ok with failing, if she says no there are plenty more girls you can build your confidence/self esteem with

GOOD LUCK