General rule of thumb: People are only as loyal as their options.

What you CAN'T do in most cases is outright suggest a girl cheat on her boyfriend. Nor can you talk crap about him or disparage him in any way, shape, or form.

What you DO, is show her how much better things COULD be in a subtle way. This text is a good example of that... I like the added touch of, "I wish I had a friend to keep all the girls off me."

Unless a girl has kids with a guy, or is otherwise obligated to him through some mutual responsibility, I do not think there is any shame in this kind of practice.

Every woman who is in a shitty relationship with an overbearing boyfriend who doesn't please her is looking for a way out of the relationship, but many women are codependent and wouldn't know what to do with themselves if they were single.. That, and they dislike heartbreak and emotional drama (as much as they flourish in it.)

All you have to do is give a woman/girl like this another option and most will jump at the opportunity AS LONG as you are not too obvious about it.

If you're obvious about it, they tend to get offended by it and see it as a sign of weakness/desperation. After all, why can't you get a single chick?

simply amazing. you set the mood right and timing perfect. I want people to notice one of a few things. Notice how the size of each text is not to much or less then her's but equal. You dont need to write paragraphs while she is hitting you with 2 sentences. Also he never talked about his life but used her words to continue the conversation and have her initiate further into her thoughts while never revealing his opinion. Lastly timing he didnt text seconds after her he did his own thing and had to wait.

note this stuff important as we all can learn

you're the man !

so this is something like the strawman technique eh?

you agree with her that her boyfriend is good at what he does, so she'll tear him down herself?

Master piece.

I found a link about how to deal with the other guys, it's not the straw man technique but still effective.

Oh and by the way: in the end he says: no-no i got her phone though.


I believe this video shows that u shouldn't be scared of BF's, brothers and other guys.

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