What to do if I live in a small town.Where most people are familiar with each other and I'm not a very popular guy.

System,

There's a few ways to circumvent this --

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First thing is first -- if you can score a ride to get to other areas where people don't have preconceptions about you already, you won't be fighting an uphill battle in trying to change peoples minds about you. From there, after you "recreate" yourself, it will be easier to convey the "new you" to others, because you've changed your self concept.

Having said that, if this is something you can't do, keep in mind that the way people view you starts with how you view yourself: if you can change the way you view yourself, you will begin to notice subtle changes in the way you act. Don't let the way other people see you shape who you are -- if people think you're a dork, or a nerd, or what have you, shrug them off -- they are trying to impose these titles on you, most likely because they are afraid of what you can become: we use these labels to limit people. It's cliche say to say, but it is extremely true: Don't let them bring you down.

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How old are you ? If you've got a car you could go to other places from time to time, you could search for a job or a sports club in a bigger city next to your place.
Or what about moving away (is this the right english word ?) from home ?

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(milf)hunter I'm 18 and I have a driving licence but I don't have a car because my father work in Germany. I doo't have a job I'm a student. About moving awey yes but in 3 years when our house is redy to move in x)