Geez, I wish I had something more creative to start with. Seeing as I'm not trying to pick any of you up, then I should be able to mess up a few times and still be okay. My name is Justin, I'm 25 and currently living in Austin,Tx. I been studying the game for about two years now. It started with the double set of diary and rules from Neil Straus. I had been having some success but seemed to plateaued in the last couple of years.

It started when I noticed all my friends graduated from college. Suddenly all those parties with lots of women started becoming less frequent. As my list of true friends dwindled down to almost none so did the parties. I am still in school myself. Only now it's the University of Phoenix. Granted I have an Associates and been to a real University (Texas A&M) I am still wanting to finish my degree. I just feel like a loser when I have to say that is where I am going to school especially in University of Texas' backyard. Right now I'm an assistant manager at a liquor store. Nice gig, really close to home, and I always get to meet people. I feel that I something is hindering me from taking full advantage of this. I make enough money to live and have nice things, but by no means luxury. This leads to one of my many conundrums. In this town you either have money, a hippie, or in a band. I am not any of those things. All those guys get the girls I want, or at least it feels like it.
I recently did an overhaul on myself and upgraded a few things. I lost 20lbs, I am still a member of a boxing gym and 24 hrs. fitness, I got a new hair (which the chicks are digging) new television and new hip phone. I just feel that my love for 80s stuff, in particular the music, kind of impedes me. I want to be cool, but when everything that is cool I find dumb or phony, I can't take it. Like there is a difference between PUA and douche bag, and even though I can befriend the douche bag, I can't fake my hatred all night.
I know I just ranted a shit load, but don't get the wrong idea. I can still break a set with the best of them. I just feel that I am not putting myself in the right situations to succeed. I'm not sure if I'm making excuses, but after a 50hr work week and full time studies, with working out and the feeling of not being where I want to be in life, I just feel like blah. Is there something that I haven't thought of doing yet that can still salvage my outlook. I have the confidence in myself that no matter how old, ugly, fat, or underachieving I can become I will still find some success. I would just prefer to circumvent those things before they happen.
I look forward to any advice that will come my way. I hope to be able to reciprocate any knowledge that will help my fellow brother in achieving their dreams.

*One side note. I just wanted to see if anyone had some advice on this particular situation that I am in. A really good friend of mine (one of the last few ones I have) was in a bit of vine. I'll spare you her story, but I will just say I am letting her live with me. I won't lie, she's hot, very hot. Again, it didn't matter because I knew where we stood, and I didn't want anything with her. It wasn't until recently that she started teasing me. Started spewing lines like, "I wonder how good you are in bed?" or "Maybe we can do it?" Now I made the mistake of jumping the gun and trying to lay her. It turned out to be hoax and ultimately a way tease and joke with me. The sexual teasing still runs rampant in my household. She will wear just her bra and panties. She will grab my junk, rub up against me. This is a girl that wants me to massage her, but doesn't want me in her. Now there was no PUA stuff used to find this girl obviously, this was a working relationship that flourished into a real friendship. It was all cool, but now I find myself lusting after her, thinking I'm on the cusp of landing a 10 instead of all those 6s and 7s I'm used. Then again, I'm not sure how to play it, if the window passed, or if there is still time. Or more importantly if this is something I should even waste my time thinking about.

My advice to you as far as the situation you're in is concrerned is simple: do it or don't. You shouldn't be wasting your time thinking about making a move and wondering if she's into you and up for it, you should either be bangin her regularly or on to the next one. The fact that she has grabbed your junk and runs around wearing next to nothing is a sign that she's at least slightly open to the idea and it's something she's thought about, but women are more stubborn and loyal than men when it comes to not crossing the line between friends and something else. It's easy for a woman to pull a man out of the friend zone, but it's way, way harder for a man to do the same.
I have a general rule that if nothing's happening by the third time I see a girl, I re-focus my energy somewhere else. This is good for multiple reasons. First, it prevents you from wasting you time on something that might never happen. Failure is as much a part of the game as success, and it's better to recognize it and move on. Second, once you've stopped paying attention and apply your energy elsewhere, you sometimes inadvertently end up with success. I do this for both initial contact and after a couple meetings. As soon as a girl notices that you aren't hitting on her and sees you talking to other girls, the whole "I want what I can't have" thing comes into play and she will begin putting in all the effort, giving you the upper hand.
As far as the hot girl that lives with you is concerned, I recommend the following: Take her out with you some night, but spend almost the entire night talking to other girls. Make sure to introduce them to each other at some point, but focus more on the new ones. This will increase your chances with both of the girls. You will be viewed as less of a threat to the new girl and your roommate will think of you as someone who has no need or desire to hook up with her and kick in the "want what i can't have" thought process. At somepoint in the night, briefly mention that your back or your shoulder hurts and a massage sounds great, but don't dwell on the subject long. At the end of the night when you get home, bring this up again and start pushing for a massage and agree to return the favor. Make her give you one first and don't give her one until she asks "when do I get mine?' or something along those lines. About half way through the massage you're giving her, start moving your hands towards her lower back, just barely touching the top of her ass and arourd her side, just barely touching her breasts. If she doesn't have a negative reaction to this, it's time to brush her hair to the side and start kissing and gently biting her neck... you should be able to figure out the rest from there. She'll either become an active participant or give you the "what the hell are you doing?" thing to which you should reply "oh, sorry i just got a little caught up and never really paid attention to how good you look" or something to that effect. If that doesn't work, call the other girl who's number you should've gotten earlier that night and don't waste anymore time with the roommate.

Solid advice from drgreenz. What he tells you to do is:

1. Show that you don't need her affection by gaining the affection of others.
2. Build a jealousy plotline.

If there is any interest on her point, these two factors will spark it. But you can't wait around...you need to act now.

Ultimately, if she's not into it then move on...or she will tease you for the rest of your life, and it will never go anywhere.