| Hi all
I'm overPlay, located in London. 26 years of age, and got interested in the seduction scene about a year ago. I went from someone with fairly average confidence, to now having women on tap, it's ridiculous. If you met me in every day life, you'd probably think I come across as a normal nice guy. I would never repeat what I write here to friends, as it would come across as bragging. I keep my adventures to myself.
The reason I got into the game was because I had been with a (great) ex girlfriend for 5 years, and was feeling that I'd been missing out a bit. I wanted to "catch up" and have a bit of fun. I realised that, for me, this was important before I get married some day. However, in the process I have realised that this game teaches you more than just how to have success with women. It teaches you to value yourself, others, and believe anything is possible.
So many ridiculous things have happened in recent months. I'll give an example. I was recently at a wedding. A girl approached me at the end of the night. I was really tired and hadn't knowingly chatted girls up. She was about a 6 or 7, and had a nice body. She said "I know this is a bit forward, but can I stay on your hotel room floor tonight? It's just so late and I have a long way to go". I didn't say yes immediately, I made it a bit of a challenge (see where I'm going?)- I said "err.. perhaps, well come up for a gin & tonic, I could do with the company and I don't mind getting you a cab home later". See where I'm going with this? Well I ended up having an amazing time. Looking back on it, I had without realising, sarged her earlier in the party. But it has become so natural that I don't realise I'm doing it. Eye contact (or eye-fucking), push-pull flirting, a bit of light negging (if she's the right target for it) etc.
I recently started a black book to keep names and numbers. There are so many in there now that I don't have time to keep up with more than 2 at a time. There's just no point in sarging any more. Everywhere I go I get numbers, whether its bar staff, shop assistants, girls standing at bus stops, train stations, airports, cafes. I'm currently dating 2 latin girls, a 9 and a 10. Yes a 10, it's amazing.
To tell you the truth, I never read the game, and I just couldn't take seriously all the language/abbreviation that is used. I do however want to read Richards book "The Art of Natural Seduction". What I have done is picked up as much advice as possible from online forums and guides.
The biggest mistake I made in the beginning was thinking "I should do this, and I should do that". The success came when I started loosening up and being myself, and when I started valuing myself and not putting women on a pedestal. Fuck it, if they're not interested, their loss. Fuck it, when you act like you're the shit, people think you're the shit. Just don't let the ego get carried away, and always be listening, asking, and one step ahead.
The more women and/or sexual encounters you come across, the easier it gets and the less you care about whether you succeed or not. You then get into a league of hot women who also get this type of regular action. You find yourself sleeping or spending time with the hottest women you can imagine, without it really being a big deal! Wow, you can set your limits high.
What's funny is that I often have women back to mine, or go back to theirs, but I don't always sleep with them and I don't always care. I seem to very much enjoy the company of a hot woman, even if it just means a kiss and a cuddle and a bit of pillow talk. Sex sometimes adds a bit of intensity to a situation, especially when the time comes to part. But whatever, whatever feels right at the time. Some women like it hard and all night long. Some don't. Whatever.. have fun.
My hobbies and passions include music, technology and photography.
My goals are to be an interesting guy, have lots of genuine friends, make lots of money and eventually get a hot, intelligent wife to fall in love with and have my children. Then the next step would be to give something back to society.
Anyway, that's an introduction to where I'm at right now. It's what came to mind at this present moment. Things constantly change so I'll be back with more posts soon. Look forward to reading about others on here getting to know some of you.
Take care now! overPlay
Last edited by overPlay on Sat Dec 20, 2008 12:56 am, edited 1 time in total.
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