I'm from Seattle and new to the game. I'm a 38 year-old, white, educated professional with an essentially non-existent sex life. I'm not one whit afraid of women, but I lack confidence in my ability to approach and interact. I guess that's approach anxiety, but in my case it isn't fear of the woman exactly, so much as it is an overwhelming consciousness of my lack of a game plan and wondering what I'm going to say to her beyond the opener.

I'm interested in pointers for how to get started. Part of my plan is to come up with 15-20 openers that I'm comfortable with that haven't been beaten to death on Mystery's show and don't sound completely phony. I think this is a pretty good starting point. Conversational strategies and tactics will be next on my list.

id recommend incorporating your educational background while being c+f. women love intelligence.you could say "hey did you know that(interesting fact)"and go from there.

bookstores life borders and barnes n noble would be perfect.see what literature shes lookin at and comment on it.

props on deciding to get your sex life in order.thats the biggest problem men have is not acting on it.

welcome aboard. i hope to learn a great deal from you and also help you out in whatever quams you have.

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