So basically I had no contact with girls in high school, so I'm a virgin and not even making out (before college). I just started college, became a really social person, I know so many people. Women wise, I started off being friend zoned even when I got numbers and thought i was doing great. Some situations were there, but I just didnt make a move. Didnt know what I was doing. Im VERY picky when it comes to my women so I wont even approach women that are 8's or below btw. Because of this I am VERY social. like i'll chat up any chick at the bus stop, library, etc and just leave it at that cuz i'm not interested in them and then they become interested in me. However, I'm not going to lower my standards. This just adds to me knowing everyone though. Im confident as fuck, thats not an issue anymore. I can get numbers piece of cake. If i see a girl sitting down I can just go up to her say Hi i'm ___ and get her number from there after arranging lunch or coffee. I usually do all my stuff daygame. (There are only a few places to go out at night and musics so loud it's impossible to talk everyones just super fucked up. So i dont meet chicks at all at night)

Recently have been with one girl our connection is so strong, and from here I got heavy intense make out sessions and almost F-close at my apartment. but we drifted apart. she said she doesnt date anymore, and i mean i guess i treated it as a relationship because we were so close and comftorble together (maknig out public spending every free moment together, etc) and one day when she was susposed to come over to my apartment to basically fuck (she asked to come over) i texted her "just finished up class, you at ____?" no respnse. then i see her talking with another dude at that place. shes a really nice girl so i know shes not fuckin around with him or anything, but basically i said fuck it. cut my losses. if shes wants to text me she can but im not initiating it. then im pretty sure she saw me with my friend the next day but she walked by ignoring me. possible she didnt see me but i doubt it.

But after that I definitely know what I'm doing now. But I have the problem where girls think I'm boyfriend material which I wouldn't mind a girlfriend but everyone in college doesnt want a relationship at all.
I think its because im too nice of a person at heart. Im not going to be an asshole, so Im just clear right off the bat now. I dont say i just want sex because i wouldnt mind a relationship but idk.

Also I do not have a car and the chicks I've been meeting live off campus like an hour away. I can definitely build great rapport and comfort, thats definitely not an issue. And I touch and tease them more often and have really good body language. hold eye contact with every chick and make em drop it. i know im confident , I know i'm the shit. im just enjoying my life. But because I cant meet girls at night I do direct approaches during the daytime everywhere around campus. i live off campus like 5 or 10 minutes away btw.

Basically ive gotten to a point where I just want to have sex. Do i tell the girls im a virgin? i feel like id be lyin to em if i didnt tell em. And because i do most of my stuff during the day how do i fuck em. I mean i think i build great comfort and stuff and I mean its pretty clear why I'm talking to em. But what do I do after a lunch, coffee, whatever u know? And what about girls in my class. like i ignore em and they know I'm talking to a bunch of other girls. I mean im always walking around with chicks. and like i said im confident as shit. i pass girls tests, like if she asks me for my number I'm like No. gimme your number. or if a girl asks me to do something I dont have a problem saying No i dont think so if i know theyre asking jsut for the sake of asking.

All i can think of is get em to come to my place when its dark outside. then id make a move. But i find it hard to transition to that. Even at that I dont have that much experience only 1 girl but i feel confident I can get makeout or at least a kiss during the daytime. Any advice and help would be appreciated.

Should I take it slow with one girl? like the other girl i was close with before took about a month but then it was wasted time. well not wasted because I learned alot. (I'm constantly learning btw) only been doing this for a semester and a half btw but i wanna move faster. I wanna be fucking a LOT. i know i can its just gonna take time. like i can legitimitaly picture myself hooking up with girls all the time in a little bit.


so that wraps it up. any comments, advice, or generalhep would be greatly appreciated

Dude, I stopped reading and started scanning pretty quickly.

Shut the fuck up and get laid.

Standards? For what? It's PUSSY.

Your 'standards' have kept you from getting laid... and frankly, if you're running game, and you're NOT getting laid - you're dry-humping. It means nothing, but a little practice.

1) Get laid
2) repeat
3) go back to 2 and continue

....yoiu think they like you now? Dude, when you learn HOW to fuck - you won't be able to get rid of them....

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

About the virgin thing, from my own past experience, it gets you laid fast if you make the girl aware of it. Worked for me, 1st date she was sucking on it!! How I miss those days ~_~. Also note that, having sex is the most natural thing you can do. That or I just watched a ton of porn that helped me, but either way, I believe you will be fine.

Standards are good and bad. I've recently come to the conclusion that I need to not necessarily lower my standards but alter my perception.

What I mean by this is, if you're sticking religiously to your standards, you will always find reasons NOT to get laid, for example: I don't like that tiny freckle on her cheek, she's had more than 1 beer, I don't like blondes.

If you keep finding reasons not to get laid, then it's gonna be a while before you do.
Start looking for reasons why you should lay this girl or that girl, and it'll happen.

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4) profit

lol

you probably dont know game that well

Being a virgin isn't a bad thing.. necessarily
To you it could mess up your inner game.
But girls do not mind it, trust me on this one man, use what you have to your advantage if you believe its a good thing it is, if you think it isn't then it isn't.
And why have a bad thing if you can have a good thing?
^^ and the man up there is right, get off your computer and go get laid!!
Seriously man, f-close some women -N

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"The man who wins is the one who thinks he can"

Took the words straight outta my mouth.

The sooner you get out of your own head (and trying to get into hers), the sooner you'll get into some p*ssy.

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