Been on two dates with this girl, both been great, made out both times, lots of touching laughing and just general indicators of interest. She always texts me after thanking me for a great night and during the date suggests ideas for next time. However when I text her she normally takes ages when replying, sometimes between 5-24hours), I know she does lead a busy life and when she does reply they are very detailed. Its just annoying as it takes ages to arrange anything and I want to try and arrange date 3. normally I would assume her interest levels are low as normally girls are fast to respond to texts from guys they like? However I always judge people by their actions and when we are out I get the feeling she's into me, I mean you wouldn't make out with someone you wernt interested in right? or even go on a second date with. So my question is, is she playing hard to get or what? And how would you deal with this situation?

Does it matter? Initially texts are meant as date schedulers. As long as you get her out don't worry about it up until the 6th date or so.

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I've had the same problem. Then you feel like a fuck when she takes too long to respond. Just call her to talk (With a false time constraint) or schedule a date. She'd be MUCH more willing to schedule a date if you call her. It is much more meaningful to girls (displays more confidence), and she can hear your voice, tone, reactions. All of that. Make sure to call her at night. People have a lot more on their minds at night and it's easier to talk about your entire day if you want to, and . Not many people have had an exciting 8 AM call, right?

I called a girl last night, gave her a false time constraint, had a small conversation with her and asked to her to "hang out" (definitely not planning on JUST "hanging out"). She was happy I called and is now excited to see me tomorrow. I'd also recommend not texting her until your date, it builds that anticipation and leaves the girl thinking "Does he still like me?", which makes her want you and think about you and crave your attention.

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