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Don't worry about the boyfriend, in general.
Don't worry about the boyfriend x 10 in a scenario where she hands you the number.
If her boyfriend was relevant (to her) she wouldn't be open to other options.
Cool! Yeah I'm not worried about the boyfriend. When she stops by she said her bf doesn't like to spend time with her doing things she likes to do, said he texts her to check up on her when she's out with her friends (insecure, neediness), and she said he recently done something stupid/immature with her house that affected her (grown) daughters that caused her to tell him to get out of her house. LOL So she's clearly unhappy with the guy cuz he stopped courting her.
I'm not afraid of the guy physically either.
But I'll invite her over for a movie and drinks and escalate to the bedroom. I may even put my balls on the line and kiss her lips while she comes to see me at work! This cougar (early 50's but looks 10 years younger) is hella hot. Next time she comes by I'll escalate and flirt right there on the job. I could get away with it.
Learned a powerful lesson with the barfly. "If you hesitate, you masturbate". Not hesitating anymore.
Thanks brothers!