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so I was in a date with this girl on friday night, and it was very good and everything then we went to dance and we were dancing and all good and then I went to drop her at her place and we were making out and shit and then that's how it ended and she said she really had a good time..
Now today I messaged her how's her shcuelde for this week and she said x and y and then I said alright this weekend I am in some camping thing so how about we meet today or wedensday,, and then she's sending me this:
" Have fun at the camping ",
" I had a great time with you the other night and really like you, but I dont feel this has a future.
" I hope you can understand where I'm coming from and we can stay friends and dancing buddies regardlessly "
I'm kinda surprised to be honest.. I want to try and save it.. you surely were in a similar situation and there must be something I can try and do to persuade her otherwise : ) open for your suggestions.
I'll respond to the quoted post thanks to Jackzero.
You guys really think some girl is going to find your post on a PUA forum under the name champyboy an be able to prove or assume its you? Like what are the Odds. If she does.. So What? Whats she going to do then?
Im in agreement with Jack.. A lot of these things however could be avoided if you guys learn to take the chill pill after the first date. Just cool it.. If you want to shoot her a message the next day cool, but you don't have to force another meet up right away. Feel the vibe out, chat a little first. When guys get pushy like that, girls get pully.
She's asking you politely to respect her decision and you're asking us how can you disrespect it. Think about that. Theres no real investment here; its one girl you saw ONE TIME. Give her space. She may come back, she may not, but cool it for now.
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