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No I completely understand that. My point is, for a woman, Netflix and Chilling doesn't equate dating or getting to know them, doing fun shit, romance
You can't have a great conversation in your home? You can't get to know someone's body, to have an incredibly fun time naked? Sex isn't fun? Lying in bed, teasing and playing isn't fun?
Sex is the adult, organic way that adults get to know each other. Post-sex talks are also usually more sincere and open (IE not interviews), as well, which accelerates the acclimation process.
I would argue the fastest way to get to know each other is in bed, physically, and conversationally.
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But I'm 32, my girlfriend and the women I tend to go for are in their late 20s. I'm not a pickup artist, my days of gaming to up my body count are past me. I'm interested in this shit to present the best version of myself possible and find a high quality woman to be in a relationship with.
Who isn't? That's the apex goal for everyone.
But if you start your first date with this outlook, it's needy. And any socially valuable woman will pick up on this vibe. Obese, large, and women who don't take care of themselves won't care so much.