You can't just upgrade a fuck buddy to a girlfriend. You're going to have to go go through the stages of dating and getting her to see you in that light of boyfriend material. You have ways to go OP

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If you want to lose the need of seeing her you should focus on talking to other women.
Also, this is not how fuck buddies work.

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Your answer (in an amusing tone):

"I care a lot when you're naked."


Keep things light, playful, and sexual.

Bad move, but no big deal if you don't repeat it.


Super needy. You're in a FWB situation.

Ignore her until she contacts you again. Set up dates with other women.

When she contacts you again:

1. Within two texts set up a meet.

2. When she walks into your place, do not hesitate to make a move. Show passion and lead. Pick her up and throw her on the bed, do not ask what she wants, etc. Do what you like and have your way with her the way a dominant male would.

3. Do not discuss feelings via text or the phone until you are in an actual relationship, and even then shy away from it.

4. Keep the complaining/seriousness to a minimum. Women want to be with a fun, chill guy. That's what you have to be. Keep doing this, and one day she will ask you to be her boyfriend.

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Well we kinda got into a point that we don't hide it and had the talk about the relationship, the thing is i kinda looked up on her facebook, and saw her chat with a guy who was like this

Her: i'm at college, being the teacher's pet
him: when are you gonna be my pet?
Her: i'm no one's pet
him: welll, be my pet for a night
Her: "kisses"

that was a day before our relationship talk, it kinda fucks me up getting jealous like this, i know how to hide it, but i don't think it is a good idea.
I never initiate contact, always let her text, say hi first. She knows next month i'm going to other country with a bussines course, and i will be gone for ten days, yesterday we talked:

Her:so am i allowed to anything i want while you will be gone?
Me: you are allowed to do anything you fucking want right now, i can't stop you
Me: i just kinda trust you
Her: omfg, i really didn't expect you to say that <3

I fucking hate being jealous, the feeling, it kills me, so i know her past, she se cheated on her ex boyfriend, couple of times, how do i make her not cheat on me, cause i know she speaks with other guys on facebook, and accepting their friendship. Need few advices here, cause i kinda want to talk to her, i know she is attracted alot to me, we fuck, kiss, cuddle, go out to partys together with my friends, her friends.
But i'm at this point that i never wanted a serious relationship, and now that i kinda have it and know her a bit, I don't wanna fucking cuddle with someone who might be sucking some other guy's dick, already got another date with other girl, while she is out of town untill tomorrow. So waiting for an advice.

Be her best option.

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Jealousy is neediness. As RC said, the way you make a girl not cheat on you is to be her best option. And the way you do that is to follow your mission in life as a man, and while you're around her, be playful and sexual. You're getting far too serious -- why are you seeking validation from a woman who cheated on her ex? Is that the kind of woman you want as a girlfriend?

You're gonna lose her

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Well it's been sometime, we still in the same fucking situation, and i got oneitis for her now, i realise that most of it's because we spend alot of time together.
I opened the talk few times that i want a relationship ( altough she knows i never want this kind of stuff) and she said that she cant decide now and we should let the new years go, and she said "it isn't enough that i ain't seeing anybody else?". Yeah so i am kinda in a needy mode, right now.
She was so in my fucking head the whole holidays, she's from other city, and tomorrow we're suppose to meet in our college city, at our dormroom to spend the new years together, and she was talking and saying that "the only reason she come to spend the new years in our college city, is that she doesn't want to stay at home" and i said " i am the fucking reason you're coming into our college town for new years" and she replied " No, i just don't want to spend it at home with the guys that invite me ( cause she said they were hitting on her)".
Anyway i know i got to fucking attached, and we might spend tomorrow and the new years eve just the 2 of us, she knows i have feelings now. And i know i fucking have to end this, or stop my feelings for her ( it's fucking hard, cause i've been out of the game for 2 months, and been only with her).
I usually spend every new years eve with my friends, this is the first one i don't and going with a girl, and i know it is a big deal for me. That's how i know i'm fucking attached to her, cause we seem so much more, sleeping together everyday,fucking, cuddling, and now that we had a break for a week, my feelings fucking amplyfied, and i am feeling vulnerable.
Wtf should i do?
Now i just want to know what the fuck should i do, cause it will kill me seeing her with another guy, and it kils me now that she refuses to have a relationship, and now i really advice, i can't carry it like this and keep getting hurt.
I need to make a move those 2 days while we are together, Either break it up or evolve. But how?
Advices guys, i need them !

Lets say she said " Okay fine.. we're in a relationship" what the fuck changes for you? What changes for her? You think that just because she says those words that its going to make some difference in the emotions felt by you or her? Are you kidding me? Thats like someone getting a millionaire to say that they're not rich. Its a statement.. it means absolutely nothing. Your life and her live will remain exactly the same. Its not like you're trying to get her to marry you, in which you guys will be legally bonded, making separation a process and not just a spoken word. I don't understand this nonsense mind frame you're in in which you're trying to get a girl to say " yes" to something that means absolutely nothing for no reason. It won't change your oneitis, it won't change the attachment, it won't make her any less attracted to anyone else. Her respect for you is the only thing that will alter her behavior.. Theres nothing that you can get her to say except "I do" at the alter that will mean jack shit to either of you guys lives.

Now, I won't even get into the girly over sensitive bitch made attachment you have to someone who's manipulating you, saying things to get under skin, and not even taking you serious. You have 3 pages on this post all dedicated to that. There's no way to stop your feelings other than to get a life, a new girl, or something you're passionate about that means something to you outside of the relationship. Something that you would leave the relationship for if needed.

Theres no real reason to return to the forums with this issue spikes.. You got your advice, but advice is logical, and thats not whats controlling you right now. You're being controlled by chemical hormonal explosions. And they're making you just as insane as someone convinced there's a monster hiding in their closet. Its all feelings. Until you go into the closet(walk away from the realtionship) you won't realize that she is not what you thought and that theres more and better out there.

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Eddie laid it out for you so you can read that and let it sink. Or you can be like me and learn the hard way. In my opinion your situation is one sided and she has the upper hand here and she is postponing anything serious with you. It's a situation where if you walk now you can save yourself 6 months worth of time. Choose the time OP.

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Well we had the disscusion, and she told me the reason she can't get into a relationship with me is because she promised to her ex from germany, that they will not see anyone untill they meet, atleast now i understand, she is verry attached to me, and started crying that she doesn't want to lose me, cause she thinks later she will suffer because of me leaving her. She knows we both have feelings for eachother, and we came to an arrangement that i can see other girls and she doesn't see any other guys, untill i get deattached, and we keep our thing going, but i'm not sure.
What do you guys think ? atleast i know now, will this arrangement be good for me?

So she wants to keep it fuck buddy/nonmonogamous. Why don't you go out and get another girl. It will act as a buffer with this one so you can stop being so damn needy

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I think he thinks the if he decides to be faithful to her even after of what she said that eventually one day she'll recognize him as such a good guy and someone that she should be with forever. All because he wasn't like the rest of the guys and decided to be faithful to someone that isn't faithful to him.

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Nah bro, i don't plan to stay faithfull and she knows that, i will try to get new girls and get her out of my mind, told you about the arrangement with her, i will try my best to get new girls.

Her excuses are funny.

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