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That's real interesting about your friend GFRESH2DEF.
It's amazing the lengths some will go to avoid facing rejection or their unfounded fears aka False Evidence Appearing Real.
It is a shame oceanx. I tried talking some sense into him many of times, but he refuses to listen to me. He chooses to actively pursue strippers at strip clubs, because strippers approach him (That's their job. That's what they get paid to do). He is more comfortable with them doing most of the work approaching him..as opposed to regular everyday girls, which he would have to approach them. Unfortunately..it comes at the cost of his wallet Lol He spends hundreds, maybe even thousands of dollars on dating advice and SPAM sessions with dating coaches, just for them to tell him what to do and give him permission to approach girls. One of the coaches that he mentioned to me was DeAnna Lorraine. But even with all the money that he spends on dating advice from dating coaches..he still avoids approaching girls on his own at the end of the day, which would actually cost him zero dollars if he did that instead. He lost his virginity to a prostitute last year..which costed him a couple hundred dollars. Not just for the sex, but he also wined and dined her too, and drove her places when she needed to run some errands. He told me that at least she was hot (an HB9 Blonde Chick), so i gave him props for that, but still..all of this because you're too scared to approach girls (primarily because he fears what onlookers seeing him approaching girls will think) come on bro...
Strippers on the other hand..i view them as legalized prostitutes, but that is a story for another day.
Regular everyday girls from the street and in the bars, aren't paid to be chatty with you or nice to you. That unpredictability is too much for my friend (my 1st ever wingman) to accept. So he thinks that regular girls are typically mean (that's what he actually thinks), which some regular girls are mean, but not all them. So that primarily is just his limiting belief. Although it is true that these type of girls can be more unpredictable, since regular everyday girls aren't being paid to be nice to you..you're still more likely to pull and/or date one of them than you would a stripper. Just because strippers are paid to be chatty and friendly to you, doesn't necessarily guarantee that they will actually be nice to you either. I have definitely met some rude, nasty, and mean spirited strippers in my lifetime.
I've banged several girls from the streets and from bars, but i only banged 1 stripper ever. So even for me..the odds of banging strippers more consistently than girls from the streets and bars, is slim to none. It's possible, but not likely. Also since strippers technically aren't supposed to bang their customers (even though they sometimes will still do it), most of them will not risk their jobs to bang some little joe schmo chode. What you will end up doing more consistently with these strippers at the end of the day, is giving them alot more of your hard-earned money than you'd wish to.
So you'll have more luck with banging regular girls from the the street and in the bars far more consistently than you would with strippers. And it's far more cheaper too. LOL It's not a limiting belief, it's just the truth. Of course there are some guys that are exceptions to the rule, but it still only proves the rule for most of us guys.
-G