Whats up guys so heres my dilemma i was dating this girl 9/10. Ive known her for about 6 months at first she was the one contacting me. I knew she had a high interest in me and i could tell she liked me. Shes 18 not that mature but still we got along great. I was never needy all of her friends and this group at our college that were in like me. I dated her for 2 months never borning i was always making her laugh and we had alot of fun. Then out of nowhere she starts to become really distant at first i did t think anything of it sometimes she wouldnt text me for 3-4 days but i thought she was just playing hard to get as soon as i contacted her she would get all happy and not stop texting me. Well all of a sudden she just completely stopped messaging me i saw her in our group and she acted really distant. Our group leader is her ex and at first there was nothing between them two they dated for 3 years and i knew he would get jelous when he saw me with her. She had deleted him off facebook and i just saw today that she had added him back and they are talking again. I havent tried to contact her i acted distant towards her at our group too. What do i do now is it pretty much over with her. Some things that i think might have pushed her away from me is that her ex is this really proper responsible guy. I am responsible to i have a good job going to school but i am more wild and crazy going out to clubs if i go somewhere im usually the loudest one always making everyone laugh hes more of s really nice calmer person. I hang out with guys with tattoos girls etc pretty much almost opposite of the guy but still i am composed and responsible. So is it pretty much over with her? What do you guys recommend i should do. Thank you very much

What gets me is i think i displayed high value to her despite me being loud and goofy all the time but she still ended up cutting me off. I dont know if i should try contacting her again its her birthday in a couple days i have to at least say happy birthday to her but im confused

What does this statement mean? More importantly, does it mean that you guys were having sex? You can go out with a girl for two months and make sure she's having fun and keep her laughing but without sex, you are just her friend.

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Have you slept with her?

It sounds like a rebound relationship. Not to mention shes yet to completely remove herself from this person she was with for all of those years. Getting over something old requires you to be removed from it. I'd say cut your losses man.. You're the fun attractive guy with the wild side and tattoo.. You should be getting a new girl no problem.. right?

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No i didnt sleep with her she was a goody goody still a virgen i only went on a couple of dates with her for those 2 months but saw her at least once a week when we met with our club. But im not worried about it i didnt get attached to her at times i do feel like i miss her but i got other girls. Its just it seemed everything was going perfect and then she cut me off like nothing.

Your ego misses the fact that you didn't leave on "top" on the situation. Had you banged her a billion times and had her texting you every day begging for you to spend everyday of your life with her you wouldn't miss her. Its not her you missed an opportunity. You don't miss the person.

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