Sometimes I will go to a restaurant and I will see a hot girl working there or I will go somewhere like the bank and see a hot girl working there. And I just don't know what to say to get anywhere with these girls.

I mean what do you say to a hot bank teller when she's taking your money to pay off your visa card? She's busy working and there are people in line waiting their turn which makes things even more awkward because they can over hear everything you say. What could you say?

What could you say when the hot waitress is taking your order or bringing you your ticket? Again she's busy working and there are people all around that can overhear everything you say. It's very awkward.

What do you say to the hot cashier at the grocery store who is ringing up your groceries? Again, she's busy working and there are people around that can overhear everything you say.

These are the kind of situations I face the most and I never know what to say to get anywhere with these girls.

my opinion is that this girls are to arrested with working and you can just to train on them but not play hole game

This is what I do when a girl is working anywhere. I go up to her with a giant smile and say "Hi, I know your working and I don't want to get you in trouble or anything but....(pause a second here to get their attention) I seen you as I walked by and you are absolutely gorgeous, and I just had to come meet you, what's your name?"

From here this can go 2 ways

1. She has a little time and can talk with you and if you feel you're not getting anywhere or she's to busy ask for her number and that you can meet up for coffee later to sit down and actually get to know her.

2. Shes not interested, like any other situation (which is ok your approaching beautiful women because YOU want to and it's fun)

Remember: Women love a guy who goes after what he wants – especially if what he wants is her. The further you go out of your way to meet a woman, the more impressive. Situations where you have to really put yourself out there give you a special opportunity to show what kind of a man you are. You’re also showing her qualities that women find intrinsically attractive, such as: • You don’t care what people think • You know what you want in a woman • You’re fearless • You go for what you want in life • You’re not afraid to take chances. You being direct and authentic is the most powerful thing you can do, GOOD LUCK!

Thanks for sharing.

What if she's wearing a name tag, would you still ask her name?

I would still ask, after i shake her hand id say "I seen your nametag, i just wanted a excuse to hold your hand." Make sure your always smiling. A girls always going to ask herself "is this guy ok, am i ok?" When it comes to strangers, and she does this by looking at you and feeling the vibe. If your smiling and have a happy/playful vibe you will never get hard rejected. Even if things dont work you will make her day and flatter her.

From a psychological standpoint: You are attracted to these women because there is a physical barrier between the two of you (a bank counter, checkout counter, a restaurant booth, etc.) Its safe to you. If these women were to jump over the counter and stand in line with you, would you do anything differently?

Work on comfort zone.

That's a good point, there might be something to that.

"Can I ask you a quick question? I know you're busy working here and you don't have time to meet guys, but
I literally forgot my name when I saw you...I think you are just (PAUSE) Stunning. And look, what would you
say if I asked you for a cup of coffee sometimes? You don't have to say yes, but I'll create a huge ass line and
not move until you do... "

Make SURE others hear you. Women have a certain disrespect towards you trying to be sneaky or quiet. The more
you can make this obvious, so everybody can hear, the bigger the impression you'll make on her.


When she brings you your order, say, "Hey, I think you got my order wrong." She'll say, "What it is it?" Um i ordered
a sandwich with LOVE, but you got me the regular one.

She smiles and tries to leave, you say, "No no, wait a minute. Come HERE. I know you're busy, but this is more
important. I know guys are hitting on you all day, but I'll literally stick a fork into someones if I have to to
get your number..."

The point of this again is to be straightforward, but at the same time show you have BALLS. In a busy environment
it's all about getting her attention..and rolling with it. You need to be balsy, but also show that you're no average
chump.
Again, make SURE others hear you.

Turn to the person behind you, and say, "I think this is the most beautiful cashier girl I've seen this entire week..."
then turn to her and as you're looking at her, keep talking to him: "I mean there's just something about her...look
at how she's doing those groceries...that's passion baby."

Make SURE she hears you as well.

Then turn to her and say, "Hey I know this is unusual, but I've been standing here thinking what to say to you,
because you're just....(PAUSE)...Stunning. If you weren't such a dork with the groceries, you'd be totally my
type..." smile and pause. Now say, "But look, I know this is unusual, but what would I need to do to get
your number? Because you can say NO, but I'm in line and won't move until you do..."

The thing with these kind of situations is SHOCK & AWE. You don't have much TIME, so you need to make
an impression really quickly. And the best way to make an impression is to go WAAY out of what a usual
chump would do or say.

These are just ideas, you can come up with your own. But I'd recommend you get in front of the mirror
and try to do the lines just like I layed them out for you.

By the way, I would also suggest you go watch the movie "The Departed" with Leonardo di Caprio. In it
there is a scene where Matt Damon picks up a girl in an elevator. I think he says something like, "If I have
to stab someone with an ice pick to get your number I'll do that..."

Watch it to get it.

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Thanks for sharing, you seem like you're pretty good at this stuff. I can see it working. I'm not really sure if I could pull it off or not because I'm more the serious type. Seems like I'd need a good sense of humor to pull it off. Maybe I just need to be in the right frame of mind.