LOL, difficult women. Waiting for more than 3 dates for sex is difficult. Meeting in public is difficult. LOL, what's next?

Lol. We're talking about women that purposely try to be challenging. Why would you want to date someone who has the purpose of being challenging? There is a difference between a woman not being ready to have sex with you as opposed to the woman that won't have sex with you because she wants to challenge you.

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Well, some of you on here can't make it past the 3rd date.
Eh, my biggest seduction was a challenge. Damn, those were the days.

That seems very patient of you. Three to four months dating someone who is that closed off would seem like that person didn't care very much for you if they were that cold and couldn't stand to take a risk. It's understandable to fear intimacy when you don't feel safe, or feel like you might be judged or have no experience but c'mon, 3-4 months? That sounds like some hefty baggage, you might be able to help them through their issues and insecurities and support them when they are nervous, but if it takes that long how can you trust they can get over their fears and insecurities about intimacy if they take that long to open up?

That seems like a whole lot of work for someone that has some issues, when you could just go on another date with someone else that doesn't carry around that same bag of problems. You could just wish them well and hope that person finds someone else in a similar situation so they can face the unknown together. That sounds better than spending 4 months on someone who may turn out to have long term intimacy issues.

Look at you Sweetie, putting words and sentences together, and being all serious, that is Sooo cute.

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Except you won't, because there is nothing attractive about a man who is afraid to lead in an interaction... unless you lower your standards and settle.

What does a woman's career have to do with waiting x amount of dates for sex?

Lock the thread and ban the troll is my vote

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Bullshit. You said you have only been with two men. You need to have more experience before you can talk about stats.

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What about rape victims?
What if the person struggles with erection problems due to anxiety? Stuff like that happens.
If they are genuinely caring, nice, why not. 4 months is not the end of the world. People stay sexless for years.

Stats? Having had sex with 2 people....doesn't mean I only went out with 2 people. You could go on 50 dates with 50 different people. Doesn't mean you had sex 50 times. So stats are exclusive to dates that lead to sex only?

Come on man, why you complicating this. Give the guys on this forum a break

I don't think that's lowering your standards. I think that's being patient and giving the guy a chance.

Is that what women say about your wee-wee too? Awww.

You can't say that being a challenge is your most successful seduction when you've only had sex with two guys. Wait...did you have sex with the guy who was your most successful seduction?

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That sounds like a lot of effort to put in for someone you just met and you are just newly trying to explore. That would be very heartbreaking if they experienced that sort of trauma. If a girl had trouble with anxiety preventing her from being intimate and I could not gain her trust enough that she could relax and let me help her, then hopefully she could find help from a professional. I would hope that they just wouldn't give up on men and there are plenty of trustworthy guys out there, sometimes you need to give love a chance even when you have been hurt in the past. However I am afraid that is a big burden to put on someone who barely knows you. That inability to give it a chance is somewhat off putting, even if the situation is placed before you honestly. I am sure there are guys that would be interested in working through that but I doubt most guys on this board would have that type of patience.