To the guys who started out as losers, guys who got no pussy, AFC's: Did you notice, that one day you suddenly thought to yourself "Shit, I've got more girls than I know what to do with" lol? I'm exclusive (but not a relationship, it's honestly weird to explain and it's a whole different topic) and I've gone from having no girls 3 years ago, to having too many options now and noticing all these girls from my past suddenly coming back around. It's now a question of my morals and resistance. Anybody else had this? Is it just a case of me noticing things more and knowing what to look for, rather than more girls actually liking me? It's actually quite annoying if I'm honest, genuinely.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

I fuck them and keep it moving. When they call and asked where i disappeared to i hit em with the
"Back then you didn't want me, now i'm hot and you all on me" deuces!

Exes have a funny way of doing this too. Just not the theatrical way we all invision. If they're worth it, fuck them and them move on.

Honestly, I'm 1 ex away from every girl who ever dumped me coming running back regretting her decision lol, and even she messaged me out of the blue on Twitter today, after tweeting to me the other day... I see her plan. I'm grateful to have this problem rather than not being able to actually get girls, but this is genuinely a more annoying problem.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

I feel ya. I've got the same problem in my town too. every girl I date is one phone call, one message, or one friend away from every other girl I've dated...it sucks sometimes, but at the same time I can always hit up the girls that wouldn't give me the time of day back then. Now, I can find out what all the "hub-bub" was about and why I was so infatuated with them, and learn that they are worse or better than I remember.
I get to learn from my past in three major ways:
1. I learn that my idea of hot was so much lower back then.
2. I learn what it's like to have the options that I didn't back then, and weed out the bad ones
3. I learn just how far I've grown, and gives me a perspective on how much I still have to go.

my point is, use this to your advantage. learn from it. use the experience, not the girls. and for God's sake, don't take revenge!!! that's just wrong on so many levels. to be a high value man, you have to know that revenge is beneath you.

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If you eliminate the impossible, only the obvious remains
-Albert Einstein

I can relate to this in a different way. Before I discovered this forum and "game" in general, I was more of a natural. I have been in relationships, both long and short term but I wasn't actively approaching and gaming girls. I had serious AA and would never bother approaching.

After discovering this forum and learning more about the qualities that make an attractive male, I noticed everything changed around me. Most girls I come in contact with or had sex with keep coming back.

I am at a stage in this "game" where I need not to prove myself to any woman. All I do is continue being an attractive male, just have normal conversations with women and everything seems to just fall in place.

I recently started working in an organization as an IT officer, and I noticed all the women at work respond positively to me in a particular manner, giving IOI's, and some would draw my attention for no reason.

I must say I am enjoying the new me, my confidence level is high and women are the least of my worries.

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"Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee

I've definitely noticed this and I also start getting more new girls interested in me than before.

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