You're making out during the date, then inviting to your place for drinks on the next. For most girls, the fun in dating is gone at that point. After you fuck her, most guys just get lazy, keep inviting her to their place for sex. She feels easy and bored. If you're not going to fuck her 1st date, set up another date, NOT at your house, the get back to your house. Make her at think you're looking for more than sex. That doesn't have to be a relationship

Based on what you wrote, it is highly LIKELY that your testosterone is low. Fix THAT and it will be easier for you to make girls horny. It doesn't matter whether these girls are Irish, Pakistani, Canadian, Finnish, and so on.

Saliva transfer of testosterone is nature's test to determine genetic reproductive fitness between opposite sexes of Homo sapiens. It's a universal thing. Irish girls have saliva just like anybody else. Irish girls will feel horny too when their testosterone gets jacked up by high testosterone men whom they make out with-- just like every female human being on the planet.

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Thanks man, i was thinking about doing that a lot and maybe i should try this also. Appreciate it!!

I understand. Sure, I will do as much as I can to get my testosterone levels high. I often go to the gym, eat healthy and sleep well. But maybe it is not enough to have a high testosterone level. And thanks a lot for the help! Appreciate it!!

Yeah man, if you talk to most girls you realize that many guys have a good first date, making out with the chick, then for the 2nd they feel like they're smooth for saying come to my house for drinks or dinner. Its very typical and that point it become boring.

Not only that, but here is a small town of 40,000 people and everybody know each other. I was trying to get the pull all the time at first date at not happening. By just setting up a second day i started getting better results... now i need to really read the girl and act accordingly. That is why i came here to see if anybody had any kind of experience with them to see if i was with the right impression. But maybe slowing down even more might work because they will see me not as a threat anymore.

Your perception of women and of yourself needs to change.