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I mean I've had women call me beautiful even before, yet I still can't close the deal the ways I want. I can talk a good game when you get to know me and vice versa, but damn. Ifor now lack the charisma, and the wittiness that other guys possess, and it makes me mad, I do everything I can think of to try and improve my situation; working out, NLP, affirmations, eft/meditation/hypnosis, flirting, social interactions, and yet I'm STILL not good enough in some women's (or people in general) eyes.
I have met many people like you. They know they are bad with women, but they start to think of hacks around the whole pushing yourself and growing part...For example, Oh girls like men with some money. They then become relentless and spend years and years and they eventually achieve a nice job, but still no women. So you think of the next hack...'Oh girls like a guy who is in shape' they then spend the next few years grinding out the gym, but...still no women. AND...so on and on and so on.
This really fucks with your head...Let me tell you why. You feel deservant of the best of the women because of these external things. But then you see some friend of yours that has less money, skinnier than you, have never learned anything to do with any placebo'd NLP or affirmations bull shit... you then start to compare yourself to these people 'What does he have that i don't have???!'. It crumbles your ego because you think women are into these external things like you. If you have hooked up with 100's of women, you would understand quality girls would prefer the whole package. Stop disregarding that being good with women is a skill. These friends of yours have probably been rejected more than you. Your looks can't take that away from him.
Your problem is that you haven't hurt your ego enough. You haven't experienced the trenches, you don't have the stare. You're not a lion because you have totally swept under the carpet that to be good with women you need to put your balls on the line. Once you master this part, the gym, wealth, looks will finally help you with women because they are incredible bonuses. That is what you guy's never seem to understand. That stuff is bonuses. Stop doing shit backwards!!!!!!????
You are pretty nice big house with no foundation. That is all. Grab your balls and really put yourself in the trenches and meet the women that you want. Stop trying to hack pussy, this is short term game. Think long term. Become attractive IN and OUT - Become a mother fucking 10 out of 10 male
from within and out.
How many women have you approached in your life? Be honest...
It's a shame because you know the secret to getting good at something unlike the average person. However, when it comes to women...
Man...I have DESTROYED my ego. i have had girls tell me to fuck off, spit at me. I have gone home alone nights nearly in tears because it was so hard to even approach girls. I manned up, kept at it and persevered finally. Now I am at the point where I am working on my 'bonuses' since I have a strong foundation in place. I have lost all my hair at the age of 30 my ego would be ruined if I didn't work on this skill for years and years. I have learned a lot about myself
What would you do if something like that happened to you like hair loss with your current ego?
Don't misunderstand me though, I am not telling you to drop your career, or the gym an go out 7 days a week approaching girls. But you what do need to drop is your ego and dedicate some proactive focus to this foundation that you lack. You need to be thinking about it when you sleep at night, it needs be on your mind. You need to be approaching girls and flirting with them perhaps daily. Anybody can approach one girl a day at the very least. Find a balance and reap the rewards eventually. LONG TERM thinking.
CHAT
