Hello guys,

Yesterday out of nowhere I see that I have a new message on facebook. Astonished I see it's HER, my crush. I was like " How is it possible? Dianna started chatting with me??!! "

She knew I exist we had a small talk a very long time ago through a common friend and nothing more. She's almost 19 and I'm 19 and half.

The surprises don't stop here. At first she asked me what happned to me and my ex. ( We broke up in march ). So Dianna told me that me and my ex gave her an example of true love, that we were perfect together, that we were her model for a relationship and other things like that.

I was surprised because she was very honest and open with me. She told me that she doesn't feel right about her actual boyfriend, that she wants to be free to party to meet new people and so on. I think it's specific this kind of desires for this age because I also felt the same way before I broke up with my ex.

So she was extremely honest and open with me. We talked for 15 minutes or so and she told me about her boyfriend what bothers her about him, she told me about her feelings, that he wants to marry her in 2 years and she doesn't want it, at least not so soon,so I decided to be honest and open with her and the conversation went very well.

She told me " you speak with your soul" or something like that and that we have to be friends.
In the end I told her: " Look, I'm tired, but we can continue our conversation another time ok?"
She told me :"Ok, if you want to talk to me give me 2 likes on Facebook and I'll get it and when my boyfriend is not arround I'll mesasge you"

I don't know what to think. I tend to think that she sees me as a good lover and boyfriend if she tells me I was an example of the perfect relationship, you know?
I want to keep this frame in her mind as "perfect boyfriend" and in the end to leave her actual boyfriend for me.

What should I do next?
What do you think? If you need other information just ask for it.

Are you sure you want her as a girlfriend? Knowing that she has all this secret Facebook code when she wants to chat up guys?

It's up to her whether to cheat or not which is likely to happen. But something tells me she is doing monkey branch theory.

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I don't know about that theory.

And yes, I want her as my girlfriend because she "cheats' on her boyfriend just by talking to me because she sees me more mature or sensitive than her actual boyfriend.

So if I am an alpha guy, the perfect guy in her reality why would she cheat on me? Seriously. Would you cheat on your girlfriend if you'd see her a perfect 10 as woman of your dreams as a person but also physically ? I don't think so

Speak for yourself...Yes I do think so. My perfect 10 girl wouldn't be monogamous, she would allow me to be poly because variety is a mandatory to me. I dumped my ex because i wanted to meet new girls. But that's just me.

If you want a girlfriend then go for it. But I hope you're just not taking what you're can get. I mean, deciding you want girlfriend out of girls before you have fucked them is the single most retarded and most common mistake a man can do to himself. This type of thinking is why this community exists. Still, doesn't change some people though...

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And what about this situation makes you want to jump directly into a relationship? Are you the guy she likes or the guy she's using to "escape" her current situation for the moment? Think about that.

And what about her would qualify her to you in such a way that you would be considering her as someone you would take serious? Because she's cute? Because she's messaged you first and its easy? What about her? One conversation in the past, she messaged you, and now she's not being honest and upfront with her current boyfriend and you're looking at this girl as someone you would genuinely consider being with?

Its a once in a life time opportunity for you, or for her who was looking for an outlet? Who benefited from that situation? She got to get a bunch of things off her chess, she got to be sneaky, and she has a new orbiter, while you're just happy she's talking to you. Now upon this mentality, do you genuinely think she's going to take you serious upon no longer needing the outlet?

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Even the title of the thread is such a weak mindset. You really should value yourself as the prize (it's an opportunity for her) and actually mean it to the core. If you have been grinding in the trenches with this pick up stuff you would think this of yourself.

She is unhappy in her relationship. She doesn't even have the guts to tell her boyfriend to his face, instead she is being all sneaky on Facebook . Not the behaviour of a perfect 10 and would raise a load of red flags for me personally...

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But... you cheat on girls you love and think are awesome. Why wouldn't she?

Look familiar?

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lol Busted. Oneitus galore.

Love how these guys totally disregard these old threads thinking it somehow resets being a chode for the new threads...

I also love when they don't reply to the other threads because you know they got advice they didn't want to hear...then they make a thread the next month totally hiding bits of crucial info. Wish these people would just open their eye's and be real with themselves.

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Ironically enough, the reason I remembered OP was because of his lack of response and explanation...

Sorry bud...