My advice, forget Kino and forget the nonsense about not being nice. I have gotten more pussy and head by being the friend. It's better that way because there's no strings attached unless she starts catching feelings.
Also, you don't want to be seen as the creepy guy that's too touchy-feely. You also have to be nice to a girl to do push-pull. For instance, if you talk to a girl everyday when you see her then you don't talk to her when you see her, she will wonder what's wrong and are you mad at her. You then just make up some reason why you didn't speak. These little things condition her to miss your attention but you can't do this if you're seen as a jerk. So there's nothing wrong with being nice when it's part of your push-pull strategy.
Also, learn some NLP. It works better for me than some PUA techniques because I'm a Certified Hypnotherapist and NLP Specialist but it's less of a routine and just natural conversation with things like embedded commands, anchors and triggers.[/quote]
Urrrrgh....
Just....no
Your advice is the worst kind because it has sensible advice mixed in with BS.[/quote]
No BS just facts. I have heard from a number of people that things like kino and negs make them look silly and they get nowhere with the girl.
Mix it with NLP and it works much better because it's just natural conversation vs. a routine. You don't need kino to know when a girl wants to be touched. Body language and rapport is all you need and you don't have problems with a silly kino routine.
That also goes for negs.
Why waste time with all of that when you can just use NLP. In Hypnotherapy class you learn about the critical factor. If you weaken the critical factor you can then embed suggestions and use anchors in a much easier way. This is stuff that is tried and true and has it's Genesis with the Psychologist Milton Erickson.
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Where classical hypnosis is authoritative and direct and often encounters resistance in the subject, Erickson's approach is permissive, accommodating and indirect.[10] For example, where a classical hypnotist might say "You are going into a trance", an Ericksonian hypnotist would be more likely to say "you can comfortably learn how to go into a trance". In this way, he provides an opportunity for the subject to accept the suggestions they are most comfortable with, at their own pace, and with an awareness of the benefits. The subject knows they are not being hustled and takes full ownership of, and participates in, their transformation. Because the induction takes place during the course of a normal conversation, Ericksonian hypnosis is often known as Covert or Conversational Hypnosis.
Erickson maintained that it was not possible consciously to instruct the unconscious mind, and that authoritarian suggestions were likely to be met with resistance. The unconscious mind responds to openings, opportunities, metaphors, symbols, and contradictions. Effective hypnotic suggestion, then, should be "artfully vague", leaving space for the subject to fill in the gaps with their own unconscious understandings - even if they do not consciously grasp what is happening. The skilled hypnotherapist constructs these gaps of meaning in a way most suited to the individual subject - in a way which is most likely to produce the desired change.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milton_H._Erickson
So no BS, just years of research.[/quote]
Let me be quite clear: NLP is a psedoscience that is not replicable and makes negligible difference to your game. There have been a number of studies into NLP that explain why it's a pseudoscience, why certain aspects of NLP are useful, and why certain aspects of NLP are useless.
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I have heard from a number of people that things like kino and negs make them look silly and they get nowhere with the girl.
First off, I like many others in the PUA community, despise "negs". Teasing is far more appropriate understanding and terminology and what people should be aiming for. People don't understand the concept behind it and thus don't carry it out properly - leading to making them look silly.
Secondly, to say that kino makes you look silly is ridiculous.
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