So I've been seeing this girl for about a week or so (although I've known her through school for about a few weeks, and we just recently starting seeing eachother outside of school, not sure if anyone calls it dating anymore haha). She seems interested, told her friends she likes me (Ik because were 17, and nobody wants to stop gossiping in highschool).

Anyway, so were going out tomorrow, and it's been some time so I should probably kiss her (I don't want her to think I'm afraid to make a move; totally am though [I've been faking semiconfidence though, fake-it-til-you-make-it], also there hasn't been a good enough moment mostly because we've mostly went on group date things, but I guess that's my fault bc I should have made a good enough moment rather than wait for one).

So basically how the f*$# do you even kiss a girl? I've never done it, mostly because I am a really big nerd, shes not though. Do you wait til the end of the date, or just do it at any point (I've read that at any point of the date it's fine, but I just don't know how I would pull that off).

Advice guys?

If you read this, and your not entirely sure your self any bit of advice you have would help.


Thanks alot

You should try to kiss her. You need to feel it out but generally you slowly escalate when you see her by rewarding her investment with escalation. If you think you can kiss her, then just go for it. If she rejects you, kiss her on the cheek, take a step back and continue gaming her and try again later.

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if you make a huge deal out of it, it will be a huge deal.

do "resistance tests" look for ioi's etc etc.

just make sure you isolate since its your first, that will help not only make her comfortable but you as well.

am i reading it right that you never kissed anyone before?

Yeah you read it correctly.

So I should've read your post earlier, went out with her today was way too nervous because I was thinking about how to kiss her, ended up being our worst date thing ever. Picked a really crappy moment to try to kiss her, she backed off. She told me she liked me but that she wasn't ready for a relationship.

Now Im assuming I should back off for a bit, talk to some other girls, and try to date around presumably.

Thing is I really liked this girl, and she seems to like me it just didnt go good today. So do I give her some space, or try again but this time without being so nervous?

Often when a girl says no it gives a certian kind of guy (mainly the PUA rookie) oneitisitis. Just ask out a few other girls. PUA makes a big deal about K-closing on the first date. Honestly, I question that advice for newbies. Take it at a pace you are comfortable with, because if you aren't comfortable she definately won't be.

If you feel that you really need to K-close on the first date just be really touchy and flirty. When you greet her, greet her with a hug. It will make the kiss less abrupt.

If you had a good first date but didn't kiss her (or try to and get the cheek), remember that there is nothing wrong with kissing her on day 2...

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my advice to you is if it feels weird, then dont do it because you will give off a weird vibe and that will ruin everything. if it doesn't feel weird, then do it. there is nothing anybody can do on this forum to make it less or more weird, it's just a situational thing.

As above poster have correctly stated, get comfortable first !
The easiest way to prepare yourself and her for a kiss is proximity.
Get in close man! If you both feel comfortable being so close to each other kissing will flow automatically.
By being so close it's very easy to read her body and feel the vibe. Even if you have little to none experience with women, you subconsciously will pick up the signals.

She likes you, she WANTS you to kiss her. Girls love to kiss, kissing is fun !!