I am just not going to progress any further with guys who do not approach or currently do PU. We do not agree and our lifestyles differ; I do PU and others with their 2cents do not. Moving on!
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It's pretty much common knowledge outside of RSDNation. And quite a lot of the proof is on their own forums.
Here are just a few
1,000 approaches, 1 lay, 2 bjs
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/206177/forum
5,000 approaches, 3 lays
http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... f=1&t=8258
50,000 approaches. Some lays, but never gets better at "game". Tyler tells him he's "intermediate" and needs to do more approaches and take more bootcamps.
https://web.archive.org/web/20130118092 ... of-Pick-Up
That is removing a few links of guys who sucks. Jmluv while rapey has accomplished more in one year than everyone on this forum. Distantlight, Ambiguity, Jmluv and a bunch of others were great posters. Curious who you pay attention to and watch for PU. I like rsd but, I also like Johnny Berba and John Cooper. I like Mystery even though I do not bother doing routines or MM.
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And of course, there's the fact that Tyler has to do 600 approaches to get laid. I can't even begin to explain how woefully awful that is.
Did not click the link but, I am not sure how recent it is. Also, sites like TAF have review sections where mods there post to just attack other companies. Eben Pagan is one of my favorite in PU but, he never bashed nor attacked competitors or clients. Its something other companies could try. Again, I am curious who you follow. I am familiar with Justin Wayne but, he has been caught paying actresses or at least, there is suspicion.
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I liked Julien when I first came across RSD.
You say that, it makes you sound like you are very new to rsd. Did you read the game? I read the game in 2007. I had a strong dislike for Tyler reading the content there. I realized that it was a narrative. While I would not trust Tyler with anything including footage of me in his audience, I still believe I could learn a lot from him, and what he has done. I do not think spamming through cold approach is the best way of things but, I have said many a times, I do not think PU is the best effective system available. The amount of time you have spent doing cold approach, how effective has it been? How many of these women do you remember and enjoyed their company? For me, I can say it is a miniscule amount regardless of the outcome. Some were awesome but, most were troubled and yet, I still try to take something away from it.
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I looked into their forum at the time. What I saw, pretty badly disturbed me.
I felt that when I had met the gang bang girl doing toilet cocaine over the holidays. I found a lot of the women I have met through cold approach "disturbing" or disgusting for a lack of a better word.
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Most of what these guys post, is just nonsense. Constantly posting about epiphanies and reading Tolle and stuff. It's like "Dude, I just had an epiphany!" because epiphanies are how you get laid. I saw several threads about dudes banging "turbo" girls. The pictures.... they were bad.
For all the troll posts in this thread, no pics, and the one guy who has offered infield here, people break his balls. I think most of the guys in PU are strange, a bit weird, cult like, and awkward. People have attacked mgtow but, the same cult like mindset is prevalent in PU. If you listen to a lot of what people in PU be it instructors or "dating coaches" and or forum members, it resembles conspiracy theorist jargon. Worse, they do not even go out.
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At best, the girls were usually decent looking, usually butterfaces and quite often fat.
For someone so judgmental, you are more then welcome to post on rsdnation with pics of better looking women you pulled directly through cold approach.
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And these were the guys actually having sex. Most of the guys looked up to these guys, because they were getting nowhere.
There are pics of Jmulv who was the quickest guy in the forum or any pu forum who excelled the fastest. Tons of pics. He had some group of guys he hung with in Vegas. All posers who talked a lot but, never shared anything the way Jmulv did.
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I probably spend 5-6 hours on that forum, in awe of what I was reading. I'd never seen anything like it.
Again, this is what sucks about PU and those involved. All the time you spent on the forum, you could spend doing more PU, and inspiring others to be like you. Lead by example.
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Guys who had been doing it for 2 years, taken multiple boot camps, and had never had sex. That was very common.
The only guys who seemed to have "success" were pretty good looking guys, banging fatties. As an attractive man, you don't need to learn anything from RSD to bang fatties.
Far from it. If you are saying most guys, this would depict PU as a whole and as a cult and most guys suck at getting women. If you frequented the forum, you would have came across Jmulv, Ambiguity, Distant light, Chinaboy, ManWhore, who actually had a collage of pics, SquatinCassanova, and a variety of other players. Unfortunately, I have not seen any of them post recently. Likely, they have gone onto do something worth while. For all the smoke, I have not seen anybody here or any other PU forum provide like they have in pics or vids.
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I also loved a quote from Tyler "Bang a fattie. It's great spirtual energy to give back". Yeah, ok.
He was probably trolling.
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Tim and Julien are their only good instructors(and Tim wasn't around for long).
Alex was great too. If you ever saw his 2010 infield collage or 201X video, it was pretty epic. He had a hotseat where he full on fuck closed some rocket. She was a international model. Good looking girl. Of all the forum instructors, I would have to say, the most norm, down to Earth guy was Alex. He was a cool guy. Its a shame he moved on like Tim. Julian is damn good but, that whole shit storm, I want to distance myself from.
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Todd seems fine, but I don't really hear him say much that's useful.
He is kind of boring. brad is not bad but, he does not talk much about game. Lately, the channels have sucked especially since the JB shit storm. They have talked mostly self development lately rather than heavy PU. I fear the content may get watered down since the shit storm but, I hope it is only temporarily.
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But most of RSD is Tyler. Tyler sucks with women, and is pretty plainly dealing with some serious psychological issues.
Yet, they are still one of the biggest companies in game. The shit storm definitely fucked up income but, they are doing good and even if they packed up camp, I guarantee they made a ton of money more so than most of the shit out there. I wouldn't want to listen to Tyler about women, for the same reason I don't want to listen to Jim Kramer about investing. A track record of failure.[/quote]
You could say the samething about Donald Trump; gone bankrupt multiple times. Epic failure in marriage multiple times. Despite failures, he is resilient having bounced back every time. That would be stupid to discard the Donald as someone I could learn from. With Tyler, he is not David Beckham, Zyzz, YaBoydave but, he offers value. He is not the ideal brand. If he can do it, everybody can.
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I've never done routines, but I can say that yes, you DO need to talk to a lot of women to figure out how to guide the interaction along in a way that consistently produces good results.
Agreed which is my issue discussing PU with guys who do not go out.
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When I started, I used to tease way too hard. It comes naturally to me, and the girls go from being amused, to eventually getting annoyed. I learned to scale it back, but became kind of dry and boring. Eventually I developed the ability to keep a conversation interesting, ranging from funny and silly, to serious and emotional. Pieces of it were intuitive to me. Some of it was not, and I had to learn it from observing other people handle situations that I didn't handle well. However, once I learned to be "pretty good" at that, I can't say I have improved much. There IS room for improvement. But it would be a lot of work, and wouldn't help me much. I've plateaued. I could claw my way up, but it wouldn't make much difference. Some of it is universal and applies to both men and women, but I do tend to be much better at engaging women than men.
I engage everyone. Mixed sets, men, women, day or night game. With men, I can potentially make a new friend or wing. With women, I can do PU or pull. If she does not like me but, she is a cool girl, we can be friends. I can introduce her to men and she can introduce me to girls. I think they call that a pivot. I go through spurts. Over the holidays, it was pretty crazy and then, it slowed a bit. I am busy in a trade school. I also have a few business ventures in the works; mostly start ups. I want multiple sources of income not for PU but for the sort of lifestyle I want. I want to travel and see more of the world.
V, what is your goal for PU in the new year?
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That's why I promote simplicity. You don't need to do a lot, to be a decent conversationalist. But I also think that's a secondary skill. Body language, eye contact, vibe, style, fitness, these things are all fairly simple, and you can get laid with just them. Conversation is further down on the ladder. Plenty of great conversationalists cannot get laid.
Agreed. I am working very hard. I am pretty exhausted. I am firing at all cylinders. Warped posted about health, wealth, relationships. These areas of my life I am working on. Health for instance I am including a balanced nutritional diet and working out. Relationships, I am making new friends, increasing my social circle, and dating more. Wealth, as I said I am looking at multiple sources of income. I just would prefer to have less emotionally damaged women around so, I find abundance challenging and really out of reach. There seems to be a time line with PU. I am always just happy to have the experience and I take something away from it. If I become drained or stressed with too much PU, I just realized I need to meditate and relax.
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I haven't really improved my "game" in at least five years. And I'm dating girls that are just as pretty and cool(and the same age), as I was before. My "game" has been stagnant for years. I'm "good enough" that I'm happy with my results and am not bothering to work on it any more. And it's not dramatically better than it was over ten years ago. I've learned some things, but honestly, very little of it is in the traditional "game" categories of saying and doing things.
Game i think consists of a bunch of things. Over the holidays, I ended the year spamming through PU just to do it. Really! I plateau and then transcend barriers. I peak and then repeat. Every so often, I meet a pretty awesome woman, I feel the lightning bolt, I extend the olive branch, and continue doing more PU. It is second nature at this point.
V, if I can be honest, I now pickup and pull more often but, I feel like the girls are emotionally damaged most times (toilet cocaine gang bang, twenty-something year old wants kids). I have been propositioned by married women. I have had women who proposition me and the ink on their divorce is not even dry yet. Prior to learning PU, I dated less often, volume was down, quality was up. I just was not long term usually. Despite all the PU carnage, every so often, someone stands out but, regardless of that, I continue to do the PU because that is what being single is about.
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Logistics? Hell yes. That was probably the single biggest thing I fixed with the help of the community. Pushing things sexually, very early on was another thing I picked up only a few years ago. I used to waste a lot of time on mildly interested girls.
Yeah. Well, with logistics, i meant more challenging situations when lets say, a girl is with her dad or working. These approaches are challenging but very rewarding when done regardless of the outcome. I enjoy "the feeling of the universe bringing us together (sorta)." I still want to hear more about your thoughts on the situation.
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"Game" usually requires a structure, and I have just never experienced anything that neatly fits within a model.
Read Antifragile. It discusses the importance of randomness. With that said, I believe structures and systems are faulty and prone to fail. There is something special about randomness. I am fascinated by chaos theory. I am fascinated by being in a random place and time with endless possibilities. this is what attracts me to PU.
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Just about every girl I have ever hooked up with, was messy. I messed up, she did weird stuff, and yet it worked. There are certainly commonalities between different situations, but they have plenty of differences. Many times, completely unique things. What do you do when your cab smells like dog shit, and you didn't smell it for the first two miles?
The problem I find is that, I sense it two weeks ago before it happened so, it already was done and I then went to do more PU. The cocaine gangbang girl - finished! The girl who was cooking dinner and giving mouth wooppie - done! Vagina fly traps those ones. Several others were fun. I always text and call girls after PU but, I am not attached in the least bit.
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What do you do when your girl's sister calls her as you're walking up to the steps to her apartment to tell her she thinks someone is breaking into her house(both things that happened to me). You can't plan for this stuff. It's too dynamic. You can kind of learn how to deal with "problems", but once you do that, there isn't much to improve. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
That is the randomness of PU. Lots of PU, you see which women you like, which likes you, and which you are not suppose to be with. I am turned off with women talking about wanting children right now. I am turned off by women who do cocaine in the toilet and gangbang. i am turned off by women who say they will do something and they fall through. If a woman cannot keep her word, I am turned off by her. I feel the same with flaky girls or girls who are hot and cold. I am not suppose to be with them. And that is okay.