Ok so I personally have this belief, that it lowers your value any time you show interest to a girl. Because ideally i should show interest to a higher value girl than the one that I'm interested in, no matter how high value she is. But I also think that not showing interest is a sign of low confidence. I don't know what to do. How do you guys show interest? Do you really have to qualify her?

This is completely untrue in my opinion and experience.

I find that actually verbally expressing that you like a girl and are interested in her is a bad thing... But showing her is just fine (you can't wait for girls to make the first move... good looking girls always have 10 guys after them, so they can just pick. You have to go for what you want).

Now, there are other users here who would argue telling a girl you like her is just fine, it depends on HOW you tell her. Check out some of Eddie F's posts on the subject. He makes some valid points as well.

How do I find his posts?

Try the forum's search function.

Escalate

Escalation filters the girls who are interested from those that are not. it also is a giant leap in game and get's you very close to the glorious vagina.

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Just walk up and say, "lets get coffee this week."

HAHA great way put it... And it's honestly true. Kino escalation is a key factor in game.

I'll try escalating

I tried talking to Eddie. He wasn't very helpful. Kinda seemed like he had a big ego too. Anyone have an opinion on this question?

Lol poor Eddie

I think Charles mentioned to search for Eddie's posts, not PM him lol

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That is exactly what I meant... Eddie has a different view on the subject which I find kind of interesting - because it would NOT work for me, but it does work for him.

We obviously carry ourselves differently.

I only mentioned him so you could get another perspective.

Sorry Eddie! If you're reading this! LOL

Lol. Poor Eddie. Most guys here post during their free time. For instance, I visit this forum during a 15 minute commute to the university or while waiting for a late professor. The guy is probably busy and you tried talking to him during a bad hour.

As Pebble already mentioned, escalation is VERY good.

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The empathy.. I love it!

To the OP.. Its all in the approach man. As Hellhound just expressed, we all have other things going on in our lives. Everyone can't personally serve you the way you want just because you want it. Come with something.. Bring your own value. Thats how you build relationships.

Much love & respect either way.

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Go up to her and talk to her. Invite her to meet up with you some time.