Hey!
I am a 18 year old boy, i would say i am pretty confident, and so says my friends. I do not really care what people think of me, an run my own game. But in my life i have only gotten 2 lays, i want more. I can count on my fingers how many times i've been to a party or a nightclub where i did not hook up with a girl, but it always stop there. I want to get laid more often with hot chicks, how can i do this?

and in general i want to become good with women, kind of a god if you can call it that. Having no trouble seducing girls and hook up and so on, become a alpha that can get all the girls (i know i cant get all types). Can someone help me becoming a PUA?


Meetup could be interesting if anyone is located in Oslo, Norway and are willing to teach me

Shame, I was in Olso last week and was in desperate need for night clubs- was such a ghost town! Could of used some help

Anyway, if you are getting makeouts but no sex then your problem is usually:

• leading - basically ,you spend the whole time making out and not leading her out of the club "let's go out for some fresh air"

• logistics - if you live with your parents 60km away then you're wasting your time unless you go to her place which is usually a head ache

• inner game -you just don't have the experience or the reference points to go for the pulls. Perhaps find some decent wings or simply take my advice on board

• escalation trouble - you're ok at getting the makeouts but that's all. You have problems with arousing/turning her on which can turbo boost your chances for her to leave with you.

• time wasters - if the girl will kiss you. But won't even leave her friends to go for a drink to the bar with you, then you're wasting your time on girls that just want validation only.

• Killing the tension - if you're kissing for hours with out no leading , they will get bored and walk away - the phone number will usually flake. Keep the tension alive and electric

This was a big problem for me, I would kiss the girl all night long and hope for the solid phone number. Little did i know, I was missing out on copious amounts of same night sex. I don't make that mistake anymore and I get regular SNL's when I made these changes

_________________
USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR REPEATEDLY IGNORING MOD WARNINGS AND MULTIPLE RULE VIOLATIONS

to bad :/ shoot me a PM next time you're in Oslo
All the things you listed here is stickingpoints for me, except numbers, i have no trouble getting those. But they seem to loose interest the day after, because i want to get laid sober too, thats also a problem for me! I have only gotten laid once sober...

How to i get rid of stickingpoints and all that stuff? I'm going out clubbing this friday, so if i get any tips i will use them that night and try to get laid

I thought I provided a sufficient answer for you to blast your sticking points?

_________________
USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR REPEATEDLY IGNORING MOD WARNINGS AND MULTIPLE RULE VIOLATIONS

On point.

Firstly, good work on trying to improve your ability with women.

Secondly, if you're looking for a wing, post a thread up in the "Meet up & Wing" section of the forum - the link is below:
meet-up-wing-vf44.html

I'm presuming you're currently working on SNL (same night lays), so I will try and answer to you from that angle.

Pebble has given you some great points to work on in your game. Next time you head out, why don't you try and lead all sets you have some rapport built with? For example: "Let's grab a drink" or "Let's dance" or, as Pebble mentioned, "Let's grab some fresh air". If it really is a sticking point, make your goal for the night to move all sets. Leading women is a foundation in seduction.

Also, it is important to try and find out within the conversation; where a girl is staying and who she is with. You are effectively working out whether the girl is available to fuck you.

At the end of the day (or night), the more girls you do this with - the higher your chances are of getting laid. You could easily make out with a girl all night, but if you don't work out her logistics, there's no guarantee you're going to bed with her. Hell, there's no guarantee anyway, just keep working on it!

Here is a section of the forum called field reports:
field-reports-vf22.html

If you post your nights out on there, I'm sure you can gather some practical advice from some of the experienced guys in there. It's also a great way to reflect on the lessons you learn on nights out, and whether you actually have any sticking points.

Here is a link for some pick up related lingo if you are ever unsure of any of the terminology you come across on the forums.
http://www.pualingo.com/pua-terminology-list/

perfect advice. but the main reason is she's probably bored...you have to escalate the situation, ask to leave the club maybe do it in the car if you have to....i've had few one night stands (mainly a quality thing) but each one i had was in the car lol But you have to be a man and lead, it was the hardest thing for me to learn...i used to expect girls to simply be all over me but no you have to lead her to that point where here desires take over

_________________
"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie