Hi! Got some issues figuring this one out!

First of, we're talking about a tinder girl here. So we swiped each other, started chatting, got to the conclusion that we thought the other person is cool and exchanged phone numbers.
All fun and games so we continue texting for a week or so. She asked if she could add me on facebook and since I start to think 'this girl is actually my type, awesome sense of humor', we add each other. (A few days later she likes one of my videos)
She has told me she thinks I'm funny and cool numerous times and I've told her the same.
Anyhow so I try to shedule a date, with just texting you won't really get to know someone in my opinion!
We decide to meet up at a park and go out for drinks afterwards, cool!
2 days before the sheduled date she says "sorry :C I won't be able to make it, it's my best friends birthday!"
I was kind of upset, I mean that's something you'd know about earlier than 2 days beforehand right? Anyhow, I just text her "Ok, give her a birthday hug for me." (our texts are usually a bit longer)
She than asks if I still wanna meet and I lighten up a bit, okay maybe not all is lost and she just genuinely didn't know about the birthday. She said she'd check her shedule when she gets back at her place since she was at a lecture at that moment.
She never lets me know anything about it.
Few days later (today) I ask if we're still meeting up and now she's saying that she'll be too busy the few coming weeks.
Haven't responded yet. I mean, cmon really? Too busy to hang out for a few hours in the coming few weeks? (we're both students btw)
I'm so confused though, I don't want to think that she's not into me at all. She even told one of her friends about me and told her that she thought I was this super funny guy.

TL;DR: Girl is my type, I seem to be her type, we shedule a date, she flakes, she says she wants to reshedule and than never attempts to, says she is too busy the coming weeks. Bullshit, or am I reading too much into it?

no attraction. you are being the clown. funny and shit but nothing more than that. you'll be friendzoned soon no worries.

She's a tinder flake.

App is full of em.

Move on... chat up some other matches...

For any and every dating site, the large majority of women are on it for attention ONLY and have no actual interest in meeting another guy.
Be upfront, tell her that you're free THIS Friday/Saturday/Sunday evening or whenever, and tell her to meet up with you. If she declines, move on.

I can't say whether you are reading too much into it or not but what I can say is that this situation is worth another milli second of your thought, time or energy. If she ends up coming around and you're still interested when she does then go for it. But i can't comprehend what you what to here from one of us on the forums. You haven't even met her yet and so you should be consuming your time and energy with another things and maybe she'll catch up.

Don't be stagnant. There is more and there is better. Its not like you invested much into the girl anyway. What are you holding onto?

Take a deep breath in and breathe her out man. If she comes she comes(Ivan Drago voice) if not, she doesn't. A million things could be happening; but theres no use driving yourself nuts trying to understand the feminine. Men have been trying for millenniums to no avail.

The only thing that is clear here is that whatever it is she wanted from you she got. Take your energy and attention back it put it toward something thats give you back when you give to it.

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Cheers buddy, well said!
You're totally right. I guess it was just the sudden change in her behaviour that got to me and confused me. On to the next!

it sounds harsh but after asking TONS of women why they are on tinder i have realized a lot of women go on just because their friend told them to because guys say crazy shit and they are just messing around on it with no intention for dates.

not saying that is what this girl is after - just learn to take tinder not so seriously for that reason

some people are just flakes, i flake on women all the time lol

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