Hi. So, I was in a club last night for Halloween party, just dancing, drinking and enjoying until I saw a girl who kept on looking at me while dancing. I knew it was a sign but me being a dumbass didn't do anything about it, she kept signalling for about 30 minutes and then she left. That's not just all. Time passed, another HB walks up to the floor with one of her girl friend and does the same, this time she kept looking at me for an hour while dancing, talking to her friends or drinking. Anyhow, after noticing me not doing shit or talking to her, she comes and sits besides me while I was just sitting, looking around, feeling the music and drinking a bit. You can guess what happened - I FUCKED UP! I didn't talk to her either. I feel like such a fucking loser, maybe it was because I was too drunk to care? The real thing is, I found her on Facebook so what should I do? What should my game be, should I add her or would that be creepy knowing that she definitely wanted me to approach her. Once again, I know I fucked up but I regret it now and won't let it happen again. Thanks!

You've got a better chance of just simply seeing them out again, or seeing if anyone you know knows them... Cause I would doubt they'd remember you.

It'd be like a cold-Facebook approach.

I suppose you could always message one of them and say "I swear I saw you at X party on X night. Was that you dressed in X?... and go from there...

If you're gonna add her and run fb game do not bring up the party or you're stone cold dead in the water. Read Gambler's material on fb game its solid that's how I approach fb pick ups. Normally I say if you didn't get her # then and there you blew it, but if you wanna try the fb cold approach I'd say go for it I dated a girl for 3 moths that I pulled off an fb cold approach.

Exact same thing happened to me last week - bitched out! couldn't find her on fb either so its a complete loss.
I would say add her if your good at FB game, then again I'm new as fuck to the game
Im pretty new to the game in its own right, but where can we find this Gamblers material? We've all seen them HB8-HB10's floating around on FB, so is there any other reading material available in regards to FB chat game?

also curious... wanted to ask why would that be a bad move to bring up the party?

Hey mate in regards to bringing up the party my thought behind it is you saw a girl, and the most you did was make eye contact with her because you were too scared to approach then you add her on fb, and bring up the party its gonna make you look like the creepy stalker type because don't fool yourself the op was too nervous too approach, and she knew it. Women's intuition is 10x stronger than a man's. So you add her on fb bring that up, and make her feel those negative emotions toward you again. You'd be better off to do a cold approach.

As far as Gambler's fb material I say its the best out there right now works great for me. Google PUA training facebook game, and it'll pop right up.

Thanks Gunfighter for cleaning that up, definitely makes sense... never thought of it from that point of view! lol

Awesome thanks for that, ill check it out

Seriously dude what the fuck is wrong with you that you can't even speak to girls. They don't bite. Get a grip man. If you FB them they'll just get pissed cuz you had your chance and blew it. They won't even remember you as you made zero impact on them or they'll think you're a creepy stalker. Next time you go to a club, try a bit fucking harder to speak to girls instead of sitting there like a dumb jerk. Say something like 'I saw you and I'm glad you came over ... my name is ... what's yours?' It's not that fucking hard and then take it from there. Jeeze it seems a lot of you dudes are really crap when it comes to girls.

I actually have some experience in FB game, and it's really simple. Most girls really depend on phones, technology, social networks, Etc.. and assuming that girl is normal, she would gladly talk to you through Facebook if she really was into you.
You just gotta keep it cool, don't make a fool out of yourself or have her think you're just not confident enough to approach her irl. Send a message, something like "Hey, I'm pretty sure I saw you at x party. I thought you were the cutest girl there, I wanted to talk to you but was in a shitty mood." Keep it going from there.

I agree with Gunfighter sans the cold approach. Let it go man. There are 3.5 billion women on the planet. They come a dime a dozen. That's a penny a piece and two for free. You blew your chance. Move on. Just don't let it happen again. No matter how hot she is, there are hotter out there waiting to be gamed. Get over the AA, plow through, and next time open right away.

This.

Let this be a learning lesson. From now on when a girl lays herself out to you like this, take action.

I agree with both of you guys I go by the principal if you don't take action then and there you blew it, but I add random hot girls on fb all the time, and go by Gambler's rules for fb game and I hae a lot of success. Ya he blew it, but I was just telling him how to run fb game if that's the route he decides to take. I don't reccomend the fb approach for this situation, but if he's gonna do it might as well go in with his guns loaded.

Are you Digital_Spy?
You post like him, but from a different angle.

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It sucks to hear bro but your best option would be just learning from it and moving on. Sure if you see her out in public again go for it, talk to her. But a cold approach on Facebook just isn’t likely to work. It’s difficult for most men to spark attraction in women over text messaging even when they have already hung out with them. Most guys don’t know the secrets to sparking attraction over text, but even the ones that do have a hard time cold approaching over text. If you think sparking emotions in women over text is hard, it’s ten times harder to do it when you haven’t even met or talked to the girl in person. Learn from it and become a better person from it. That’s all you can ask for bruv.

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