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I bought my first house at 28 and have a decent career.
I was like a rock star through my 30s with the killer bachelor pad.
Anyways I fucked up lost my house during the meltdown and now I am getting back on my feet.
In the meantime my 84 mother had a stroke so I moved back into her home to care for her.
At that time I broke with my ex who was a a no good cheating ho.
Now I'm back on the scene after 5 years and living at home is really fucking up my life.
I look like the 40 yr virgin to strangers.
I'm looking for a place, basically a shag pad and a place to have some privacy.
Anyone else in this circumstance?
I wonder if I should even bother playing the fields until I get my own place.
What was the outcome of this Spacejazz?
I'm in a similar situation and it doesn't really bother me. Being honest will be fine and the fact I've moved home to take care of my parents shows I'm a caring guy. If a girl doesn't relate to that she's ice cold and not worth my time.
I'm going to start dating again in the next few weeks and my frame on this has to be strong.
You can always turn it around making a joke of where you live saying you've escaped from the local prison or that you like to see a girls place to see what the latest Laura Ashley range is
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Just have a strong frame and be honest and relaxed about it. Shit happens but you are doing the right thing for your family.