My girlfriend thinks I was "playing her" to hook up with her. Now she's super pissed. But, I love this girl to death, and do not want to leave her if at all possible. Do you guys have any suggestions about how I should handle this situation so we can still be together?

You could have her read the game?

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If you fully understand the mind and how it works for you and others, life isn't any better.


Even the best have questions.

Does she know or think? Based on what information?

I would explain it straight out - "Im a good guy, you see that hence we have been seeing each other. I have however always had a problem with my confidence, getting women to see the real me, get past my social block....(whatever your problem)" This stuff is just simple psychology that a some people do instinctually but that I personally was struggling with"

It was just a tool so that I could meet someone great like you and find a connection with someone that before I would never have had the confidence / ability to do. You should have no reason to feel hurt or betrayed, I just wanted to get past the intial dificulties and have a chance for you to see the real me etc etc

If she really has a problem then I would suggest she is not actually into you! Unless her problem is that she thinks your gaming her as well as others on the side and are just a dog. Otherwise she should be cool

I actually have a girlfriend of 3 years and I learn more on this stuff and other areas of social dynamics and human psychology everyday. If she has a problem with it TOUGH. It is your own development. Invite her to actually check it out and how interesting it is. Show her how it affects all areas of your life. Dealing with GUYS and GIRLS. WORK AND PLAY etc etc. Then show her something to reinforse this. I would reccomend something that isnt too male and sexist orientated i.e David Deangelo has a good course Mastery with women and dating that for the first few hours barely mentions women. this is a good example to give her of how your interested in total growth not on picking up chicks.

Mysterys Magnum Opus is VEY focused on hooking up with chicks so be carefull but it does actually have some of the most fascinating information on evoloutionary psycology and how male and females are HRADWIRED to respond in certain ways to situations and behavour. Have her see how interesting the subject is and get away from the ´Pick up´tag that this stuff come under! Really we are learning great life tools - teacher just uses the chicks as a spoon full of sugar to get you to learn

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Remember a ship in the harbour is safe.....but thats not what ships were built for!

Am I being Pranked or what?

How has an old topic got to the top of this forum list so that I wasted my time on it????

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Ink

Remember a ship in the harbour is safe.....but thats not what ships were built for!

its not an old topic?...

to answer the question in the most basic form... tell her that pua isnt about hooking up... its about building the social skills to relate to women successfully... skills that were lacking in all of us...
and if she doesnt believe you... have her read this thread

yea, i dont see why girls should get mad, i didnt trick them, i just did what was right.

im saving this thread just in case

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Good luck, happy Sarging!

-Mister GQ

Ur a PUA? Thats nice, then use your PUA skills to get out of it, or better yet, say this,

"You really think I'm a PUA because i want to find out how girls think. If i wa a real PUA, I'd have a million girls, but i dont baby, i have you, and your the only one for me."

Sure, its a little cheezy and you might throw up after saying it because its.. just.. ew.. but it will work


YOUR NOT IN THE CLEAR.. she will swallow it but still be suspicious.. so, now is your time to at like an AFC...show her your genuine, if you love her so much. I think a real PUA not only plays the game to get the girl, but plays the game to keep the girl, and somtimes, the best PUA move is to be an AFC

Have you considered the simplest of all things? Talk to her. Tell her how you feel.