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As the stereotypical lazy uni kid who has lived off his parents finical cushions his entire live this thread is insightful.
I'm taking retakes to try and stay in uni. My work ethics are abysmal, now I'm thinking if I have to retake the year I may as well just drop out.
As someone who has no experience my opinion is just talking out my ass BUT the vibe of this thread is so materialistic it makes me want to vomit....Whatever happened to perception is reality? quoting the wolf of wall street stating that money buys happiness is ridiculously absurd....no, thinking in a certain way creates happiness.....You could be locked in a cage in prison and still be incredibly happy.
If some posters exert more effort in changing the way the think instead of chasing paper perhaps that would suffice?
As I said I'm talking out my arse, and reading this thread has made me slightly anxious so I perhaps I'm taking an exaggerated negative stance..
Money isn't everything, far from it. And, in fact, the thread started off talking about moving out of your parents' house, not just making loads of money. Because of how much moving out can be, that is what it has sort of become about. But even so, there is a method behind the madness. Nobody has said earn as much as possible because money makes you happy - just that with it you can afford to do things like move out, get your own place, go on nice holidays etc.
The real lesson to be taken from most of the advice in this thread from the likes of Majikal is not about making money. It's about the "doing something for yourself" bit. Yes, in today's world, that often equates to going out and earning enough money to be able to do something for yourself. Majikal isn't saying move out of your own house and make loads of money for the sake of it, he's saying do it because achieving something on your own back is far better than sponging off someone else for years. It will make you feel better.
You say your work ethic is bad and you're having to resit. But I imagine there's no pressure on you; if you drop out or fail, you'll go back to living with your parents for a while, until you get some average job and earn just enough to move out - maybe your parents will put down a nice deposit on a house or something like for you and you'll eventually muggle by. But what sort of a person does that make you? Wouldn't you rather be the person who went out and made it himself?
You can probably be happy by just getting everything given to you on a plate, cruising through life (and university) without putting much effort in. But it will feel a lot better if you get out there and succeed, achieve something. Yes, that might result in money if your achievements are career based. But it doesn't have to be money - it just has to be something you can look back on and be proud that you made happen. Compare dropping out of uni because your work ethic is bad vs working your socks off and getting the grades you need. Look at those people who earn big money - do you think they are all motivated by the wealth? Some maybe, but most would be happy to be earning an average age. The thing is, they get a buzz from sealing a big deal or from making the next step up. They get a buzz from ticking something else off their personal achievements/development list.